"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do i get rid of s.anxiety , shyness , low confidence and social stigma?

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I learned , that when youre more of a 'beta' and 'introverted/shy/closed/anxious' youre actually CONDITIONED to be that way by your toxic/bad parents,who were overly dominant and rude towards you. And about this social stigma , is there a way a person can overcome all of this "chains" that are stopping you , so you can't be feeling awkward,anxious and hurt before even talking to people. I saw , when you are a man and display weakness , either in real life or in internet they use to troll , hate , judge you and try to make you feel bad , for whatever reason. I stand up to that thing , but not feeling like it every single time. My experienced friend which is 31 now and has LTR , says he doesn't give a crap about what they say and do , and just does his job and his life/being assertive and doing his own stuff that makes him happy. Last time i posted a story on the internet some dumbasses started talking about me displaying very unattractive qualities , which i felt as a personal attack , because they were judgemental and very rude , abusive "gonna smash me and send me to a hospital" , wow , really? From where , from the internet keyboard staying behind an annonymous comment , hahaha lol , people are full of jealousy and crap inside them i guess. Haters gonna hate , so pathetic. Even on the coaching videos ,(about the coaches ) still the same toxic snakes spitting the venom to the people who talk. Just so evil and pathetic , how are people even not realising what they do is ****ed up? C'mon man , are we really that animalistic and evil? I don't get it really. Yeah i've been angry towards parents sometimes , but that problem is gone worldwide , everyone can stay behind a computer and put some nasty stuff just to feel better about themselves and their pathetic existence , which isn't to do and go forward , instead to put garbage to the others
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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