"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How Do I Get Rid of an AW?

ezilonman

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So some of you might remember the attention ***** who used my AFC ways to screw with me for months. That brought me to this place.

Now, about two- three months later I have been cured of my AFC ways but I have not been cured of this attention *****.

I am no longer interested in her what-so-ever, I have moved on successfully...so then why is she a problem? Simple, my gut tells me she is still trying to control me and it is annoying and pissing me off.

We agreed to be friends and I was all for it but she is obviously not. What a crazy *****. She keeps setting off my ***** test alarm (aka my gut). I tolerated her for the last few months but she flat out disrespected me for the last time the other day. I did not make a big deal of it but I will not take another one of her ***** bullets.

I feel like someone needs to set her straight since she is known as a super ***** by most and I know what a freaking messed up head case she is.

Do I...

A) Give her a piece of my mind (tell her I will not tolerate her disrespect, get over it and come talk to me when she gets some integrity)

OR

B) Just flat out forget trying to make working with her fun again and ignore her...flat out ignore her unless I am speaking on behalf of a customer.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jaun_Don

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The ignore option is the best one in my view.
 

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how is she ignoring you????

like if shes intentionally pissing you off... then she might like you or something (some AFC girl love)

Or if shes really being the b1atche that you say she is... jus say ignore her!

What are you expecting us to say... take her out and bang her until she stops bothering you? lol
 

Q-Pid

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Look you're not fvcking her, and you don't want to fvck her, so what's the big deal? You're not "getting rid" of an AW because you don't HAVE an AW.

Let idiots be idiots. Don't waste your time with her.
 

ezilonman

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My main concern is work. See...this is why you stay away from females you work with. I CAN'T avoid her. Part of my job deals with me checking her out of the store everyday.

I am hoping one of you have gone through this and you did X which was no good but if you do Y it will solve the problem.

I think she is trying to see if she still has control. Or maybe the fact that I dropped her like a bad habit has turned her feelings for me which would be all too funny.

If I call her out...maybe she will stop and go back to being friends or maybe she files a BS sexual harasment charge to get even (this is a b!tch that tried to **** my buddy simply because I called her a b!tch).

If I ignore her maybe she takes the hint that I am not going to chase and she stops or maybe she slashes my car tires because she is THAT crazy!
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gt2345

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dude just put your foot down. My current gf is an AW but stuff is ok now cause I was willing to walk away and put my foot down let her know whats up.
 
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