"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do I get INTO the friend zone?

Klaus

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Women just want one thing and its freaking obvious.

All I do is make my bank week after week and do my
own thing, next thing you know, bam some divorced
chick lands in my lap.

Why does just "come over to watch a movie" or
"hey lets go to the beach" always end up drowning
in her juices by the end of the night?

Is it because I have way too much time to do the
things I normally do to care anyway?

Is it the fact I hold a job and not really want anything
out of her because I'm generally too busy with my
own life.

To be young and naive again...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Joe Stud

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you got a tuff life bud. but god doesnt give you problems you cant handle...
lol
 

GetOveIT

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Dude no one avoid the friendzone and experience at least one time in their life, if you did avoid your entire life please explain to the common man.

I know how to avoid it but it's game not natural, if what youre saying its true than youre a natural and a lucky man.
 

morepoonplease

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if he was a natural he would not be here, plain and simple... i'm calling bs on this one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GetOveIT

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ye, just one more afc trying to play grow up, dont want to get yer hands dirty :crackup:
 
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