"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do i get her to let me go down on her?

arcilitei34

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Well i figured i should probably try this out sometime, she's a really aggressive and horny person if i get my gf going though :D so i figure she might be comfortable with it. So how do i go abouts initiating it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i think you're looking at it the wrong way. generally, most guys do not enjoy it that much and even if you do, at the end of the day she will enjoy it more

treat it as such. make it out to be a favour. for example you could say "i'll tell you what, if you give me a lick of that ice cream, i might just go down on you"

that should never happen

when you two are alone, something on the lines of "you know what, you've been pleasing me far too much recently, so i think it's my turn i gave something back to you." *head south*
 

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While you are both in the mood, and "it's on", just go down.

Think like Nike: "Just do it".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wh01987

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basicly if shes ready to **** she will and if you and your girlfriend have a close enough relationship just ask "are you ready" and if she doesnt know what ur talkin bout then well guess shes not
 
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