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how do i get her to break up w/ me?
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drixsa
Master Don Juan
you really have 2 choices makin her a cry a little but youd be honest with her and she would have no justification for hating you
or you could...
lie to her, become an *******, have her and her friends hate you, etc.
just have some balls and be honest and tell her thatit isnt working out and that you just dont have "those" kind of feelings for her
lets think about this if you were in her shoes would you want her to suddenlybecome *****y and start lieing to you?
id like to think that you would not
shell appreciate it and maybe u 2could become friends or she might inadvertenally introduce you to one of her friends
or you could...
lie to her, become an *******, have her and her friends hate you, etc.
just have some balls and be honest and tell her thatit isnt working out and that you just dont have "those" kind of feelings for her
lets think about this if you were in her shoes would you want her to suddenlybecome *****y and start lieing to you?
id like to think that you would not
shell appreciate it and maybe u 2could become friends or she might inadvertenally introduce you to one of her friends
Fey the Girl
New Member
have pride
Why can't you be a real man and tell her what's going on? Don't you think she deserves it ?
What will she do? Kill you?
I don't think so. Go right ahead.
Do it right.
Why can't you be a real man and tell her what's going on? Don't you think she deserves it ?
What will she do? Kill you?
I don't think so. Go right ahead.
Do it right.
if it helps, i just finished a similar problem. a girl i was going out with got quite attached to me, then after a while i realized it wouldn't go very far because it wasn't really working. i was kind of worried about the whole crying thing, but i broke up with her anyway. after i did, she simply said she too was starting to feel that it wouldn't work.
put simply, don't worry too much. it might work out just fine.
put simply, don't worry too much. it might work out just fine.
Ronny_Neumonic II
Master Don Juan
3 simple words :
I is bent
I is bent
ShizamDaMan
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"I enjoy your company a lot, but I'm just not feeling that romantic vibe that two people get when they're really in love. I hope we can still be friends."
Grab your balls and dump her yourself.
Grab your balls and dump her yourself.
Sax God
Senior Don Juan
If you can't handle breaking up with a girl, you have no place being with one anyway. Just bite the bullet and break up with her.
I am in a similar situation right now...
The thing about my situation was that, I made such a big deal about us getting together.
And when we finally did, it turns out that she is growing way too attached to me. And I don't know if I want to break up with her yet. But I might in the near future.
It just seems really bad, because I was the one who persisted that we go out even though there were socail obstacles to begin with. I told her to over-look it. And now I am the one who wants to end it
The thing about my situation was that, I made such a big deal about us getting together.
And when we finally did, it turns out that she is growing way too attached to me. And I don't know if I want to break up with her yet. But I might in the near future.
It just seems really bad, because I was the one who persisted that we go out even though there were socail obstacles to begin with. I told her to over-look it. And now I am the one who wants to end it
xanderbaz:ice
Don Juan
Women cry over a broken nail, being emotional beings (that use the first opportunity available to stab you in the back).
Honestly, you gotta re-evaluate why you are breaking up with her and then put it to her nice and clean. You never know, she might be useful later on in life.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
seloifter
Senior Don Juan
Whatever you do, DO NOT TRY TO GET HER TO BREAK UP WITH YOU BY BEING AN ******* TO HER!
Everyone knows that when girls are emotionally attached to a guy, and they start being *******s, they will simply become MORE attached and try HARDER to "make the guy better"...... they will NOT break up with you.....
look, I have a friend who's been goin out with a girl for three years. For the past year and a half he's been trying to break up with her. Well, I wouldn't say he's been *trying*...... just wishing.... for the past 6 months they've barely seen or talked to each other. But every time he tries to break up with her he can't stand to see her upset so he chickens out...... the result? both he and the girl are miserable as ****......
grab your balls and break up with her...... she won't do it......
(of course, on the alternative, and interesting experiment would be if you become a TOTAL AFC, called her eight times an hour, kept hanging on her, etc etc..... she'd prolly break up with her...... of course then people say "no she's the type of girl who would love that"..... these are teh same people who say "no girl likes a jerk"...... I'm pretty sure it would work in distancing her from you...... but I still recommend using your balls)
PS: If you want a REAL JACKASS way to do it..... screw her from behind, then when you're close to climaxing, take it out and spit on her back so she thinks you came there, then when she turns around come in her face then scream "we're through, B*TCH"!!!
rofl...... that is so messed up, I'm just kidding.... don't ever do that hahahaha
Everyone knows that when girls are emotionally attached to a guy, and they start being *******s, they will simply become MORE attached and try HARDER to "make the guy better"...... they will NOT break up with you.....
look, I have a friend who's been goin out with a girl for three years. For the past year and a half he's been trying to break up with her. Well, I wouldn't say he's been *trying*...... just wishing.... for the past 6 months they've barely seen or talked to each other. But every time he tries to break up with her he can't stand to see her upset so he chickens out...... the result? both he and the girl are miserable as ****......
grab your balls and break up with her...... she won't do it......
(of course, on the alternative, and interesting experiment would be if you become a TOTAL AFC, called her eight times an hour, kept hanging on her, etc etc..... she'd prolly break up with her...... of course then people say "no she's the type of girl who would love that"..... these are teh same people who say "no girl likes a jerk"...... I'm pretty sure it would work in distancing her from you...... but I still recommend using your balls)
PS: If you want a REAL JACKASS way to do it..... screw her from behind, then when you're close to climaxing, take it out and spit on her back so she thinks you came there, then when she turns around come in her face then scream "we're through, B*TCH"!!!
rofl...... that is so messed up, I'm just kidding.... don't ever do that hahahaha
Salacious D
Don Juan
To expand, seloifter
Give her a dirty sanchez.*
You have to. Absolutely. I have decided, newone, that in order to break up with your girlfriend, you have to give her a dirty sanchez. It'll gross her out beyond belief.
*dirty sanchez: have anal sex, then withdraw and rub ze feces just above her mouth. Gives her a mustache
Give her a dirty sanchez.*
You have to. Absolutely. I have decided, newone, that in order to break up with your girlfriend, you have to give her a dirty sanchez. It'll gross her out beyond belief.
*dirty sanchez: have anal sex, then withdraw and rub ze feces just above her mouth. Gives her a mustache
Sax God
Senior Don Juan
Re: To expand, seloifter
That is fvcking nasty. Literally!
lolOriginally posted by Salacious D
Give her a dirty sanchez.*
You have to. Absolutely. I have decided, newone, that in order to break up with your girlfriend, you have to give her a dirty sanchez. It'll gross her out beyond belief.
*dirty sanchez: have anal sex, then withdraw and rub ze feces just above her mouth. Gives her a mustache
That is fvcking nasty. Literally!
Salacious D
Don Juan
Yeah
And, honestly, if she stays with you after that, then she's a keeper.
And, honestly, if she stays with you after that, then she's a keeper.
Sax God
Senior Don Juan
Re: Yeah
This is true. Very, very true. lol
Small time PImp
New Member
i had the exact same problem
bbuuuttt i dealt with it in a decent enough way...
this is how i did that shiot
ok...i beat around the bush a couple of day's kinda bein an ass not really paying attention to her pretending my mind was somehwere else.....then when she started asking about it...i went into the whole i odn't want a relationship right now...and then went from there saying how i was confused and what not...then i was like well i'm going home...blah....she calls me after i've beenhome a little...and asks "so does this mean we're broken up?" ...i go yeah....she says ok....and i say bye
i don't think i could have worked it smoother...that was better than i hoped
now more recently i got a girl to break up with me just by pissing her off.....she was a smoker and i hassled her about that...i was a "jerk"....and she just called me up lsat night and asked for a "break" when i told her i was gonna hang out with my friends that night and not her.....sooo i was happy to agree with this....kinda mad cause i didnt' have a girl lined up but oooh well...it's still all good
Small Time pIMP
bbuuuttt i dealt with it in a decent enough way...
this is how i did that shiot
ok...i beat around the bush a couple of day's kinda bein an ass not really paying attention to her pretending my mind was somehwere else.....then when she started asking about it...i went into the whole i odn't want a relationship right now...and then went from there saying how i was confused and what not...then i was like well i'm going home...blah....she calls me after i've beenhome a little...and asks "so does this mean we're broken up?" ...i go yeah....she says ok....and i say bye
i don't think i could have worked it smoother...that was better than i hoped
now more recently i got a girl to break up with me just by pissing her off.....she was a smoker and i hassled her about that...i was a "jerk"....and she just called me up lsat night and asked for a "break" when i told her i was gonna hang out with my friends that night and not her.....sooo i was happy to agree with this....kinda mad cause i didnt' have a girl lined up but oooh well...it's still all good
Small Time pIMP
twisted_chica
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Hey Sweety,
Take it from a girl, just break up with her. It happens to everyone and in the long run it will make her stronger anyways. Don't be an ass. Just be honest with her. That will make you a bigger man in the long run! Good luck!
Take it from a girl, just break up with her. It happens to everyone and in the long run it will make her stronger anyways. Don't be an ass. Just be honest with her. That will make you a bigger man in the long run! Good luck!
Sax God
Senior Don Juan
Sometimes it's good to have a female perspective on some of this stuff. I just wonder what purpose these forums serve for women.
xanderbaz:ice
Don Juan
Their purpose is to see how much we know so they can figure out how much they can get bywith.
twisted_chica
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You got it, just checkin to see how much you boys actually know! Also I think that it is good if you boys have some female input, trust me, you will thank me in the long run!