About a week or two ago I messed up the relationship between me and this girl. She started playing games, bull****ing on when she want's to hang out ( saying she's too busy ) or w.e. Basically I lost control in the relationship and it was all my fault. So I ignored her for about a week stopped texting her and calling her. I just said hi at school when I see her. She study's with my friends and what not. Every day after school these guy's study together at the library but I have been MIA. Completely not hanging out with any of them just pretending like I was busy which I was. So monday was the first time I stayed and studied at school in the library ever since I stopped giving her attention. I did not give her any attention while studying so she does the following: Relocate's her seat so I can see her, cause she was in my sight and I was playin cards with some other girl's I make eye contact with her and she wave's to me first with a big smile on her face. Then I move back to my seat from playing card's and she's a table or two away from me and she get's up walk's back to her old seat and punches me in the arm as she's walking by.
So a few time's she walk's by and she look's as she passes to check if I am looking at her. Didn't stop her to talk to me or anythin just did my work. At end of the night she said bye. As she was leaving and saying bye I am like hey come back and she does thinking I Am gonna have something to say and I am like "have a good night" in whispering voice and she's like confused and laughs. Tuesday I run into her after my midterm on campus she was heading to the library to the study we chatted for a bit and she told me to come study at the library basemant. I was busy and had other **** to do I didn't bother showing up that day. So today at the library, my friend's are going to this DJ at a club tonight and she asked me if I was going I said no she wasn't too happy. One of my friend's come's down to the library to study wtih me he's a older guy and she like's talkin to us both when where together. Anyways she was sitting a few table's down behind us and we where giving her no attention at all. So she moves a seat next to us ( to our right ) and sits with the ppl that where sitting there. Anyways me and him where chattin and he asks me about one of our friends and I told him I have date tomorrow. I said it pretty loud so she can hear it too and she did. She wasn't too happy and seemed pissed off. Me and him went to go grab food from caff and we where there for like 40-50 minute's we come back she left. She usually leave's with her friend's that are studying there but she left by her self. So my question is how long do I keep ignoring her and not giving her attention( to what point do I need to be cold, when is too much? ). How do I get her back? It just feel's like she likes me and I really never been in a situation like this. Will she bring up us hanging out together first or do I need to do it? I don't want to scare her off but at the same time I don't want to lose control again.
So a few time's she walk's by and she look's as she passes to check if I am looking at her. Didn't stop her to talk to me or anythin just did my work. At end of the night she said bye. As she was leaving and saying bye I am like hey come back and she does thinking I Am gonna have something to say and I am like "have a good night" in whispering voice and she's like confused and laughs. Tuesday I run into her after my midterm on campus she was heading to the library to the study we chatted for a bit and she told me to come study at the library basemant. I was busy and had other **** to do I didn't bother showing up that day. So today at the library, my friend's are going to this DJ at a club tonight and she asked me if I was going I said no she wasn't too happy. One of my friend's come's down to the library to study wtih me he's a older guy and she like's talkin to us both when where together. Anyways she was sitting a few table's down behind us and we where giving her no attention at all. So she moves a seat next to us ( to our right ) and sits with the ppl that where sitting there. Anyways me and him where chattin and he asks me about one of our friends and I told him I have date tomorrow. I said it pretty loud so she can hear it too and she did. She wasn't too happy and seemed pissed off. Me and him went to go grab food from caff and we where there for like 40-50 minute's we come back she left. She usually leave's with her friend's that are studying there but she left by her self. So my question is how long do I keep ignoring her and not giving her attention( to what point do I need to be cold, when is too much? ). How do I get her back? It just feel's like she likes me and I really never been in a situation like this. Will she bring up us hanging out together first or do I need to do it? I don't want to scare her off but at the same time I don't want to lose control again.
Hope everything work's out