"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do i get closer to someone?

Junaid

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ok well i was lookin at these pics of random kids at my skewl.. and i noticed how i knew just about everyone BUT I WAS CLOSE WITH NONE i wasnt even part of the clique at all

and this rele pissed me off for a bit.. felt like they were being fake friends and not including me in out of skewl stuff ><...
i later asked my close friend if i was hard to get close to or something. he said i was actually really likable (muahah) but nonchalant. makes sence cause i got A LOTTTT of acuatences (or however u spell it) but very few close friends (like 4-5)
apparently i guess people are to scared to get close or something i dont no but

HOW DO I FIX THIS HELP PLZ!?!?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sean O

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One good way to do it is to be open with people about yourself. This will make them feel that they can open up to you themselves without you spreading gossip about them, because you've already put your trust in them. However, you shouldn't do this with known gossip addicts (they don't make good friends anyway). Also (and I'm sure this goes without saying), don't betray their trust once they do open up to you... lol :D
 
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