"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do i get close to her?

sadinlove

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I'm a fair 16 and theres this really tan cute 13 year old animal lover that i have a crush on.. she doesnt know about it yet.. just added her on messenger.. and i have been waiting for her to come online since... what should i do to get close to her? I'm afraid she might think im not handsome enough for her or not good enough for her.. i can't bring myself to talk to her face to face.. what should i do? how can i make her like me ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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That was one of my questions when I first joined this site. I suggest you read The DJ Bible, its on your screen, top most right.

Be confident, be a Man. Go out there and talk to her, no sweat.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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must.... not... flame.....

lol

we were all here at one point, and keeping with the tradition of better men who have gone before me...

READ THE BIBLE!!!
 

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They're right, man. That s how we all started. How do we get one girl? We thought this site would help us do us, and live happily ever after.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

scroll down to the actual sets of articles. Read them all. You'll see things in a new light pretty soon.
 

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how can i make her like me ?
It's certainly not going to be by putting her on your IM buddy list. Check out the DJB and look for posts on approaching girls (the link to the top right on the forum).
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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