"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do I get a response from voicemail?

Do you like to text message women after the first encounter before speaking?

  • All the Time

    Votes: 1 12.5%
  • Never, always call

    Votes: 5 62.5%
  • Depends...

    Votes: 2 25.0%
  • I dont have text messaging

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    8

donovan

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G'day people, I was curious,

WHAT TACTICS CAN WE USE FOR GETTING WOMEN TO RETURN VOICEMAILS, TEXT MESSAGES?

This is a really practical thread...

This is the usual situation:

I approach, usually in a very non-chalant way. I have an accent which girls love the first time I speak to them, so they are IOI all over the place. I usually get their number after about 5 minutes, telling them I'd better get back to studying (im in college), or that I have to meet up with friends, etc. I don't think its the approach.

I call about 1 or 2 days later, and I leave a voicemail, saying "Give me call back. This is the Australian guy you met blah blah"

Any suggestions?? Specific words we can say to get a response, or things you should do when asking for a number, how long, tone of voice when calling for the first time, (it is very rare that a girl will pickup the first time I call) or should I just NOT leave a voicemail, and call back a day or two later?

Also text messages, what have people found to be great at getting dates, return texts etc?

P.S. This isn't just me. This happens to alot of guys. The thing is I will end up hooking up with them later in about a week or two. I just find it so frustrating that they never answer, or return calls. So how do I short-circuit that defense that they seem to have up.


Cheers mates! Lets get it rolling, and lets keep it REAL...
Donovan
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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An accent can keep a woman interested for only so long. The message you leave must be interesting enough for them to return your call. Just saysing "Give me call back. This is the Australian guy you met blah blah" just ain't gonna cut it.
 

donovan

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I understand an accent wont last forever. That's not the point of this thread. The point is examples of successful voicemail/text messages that people have left, and have a good response rate to...
 

diablo

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Post in the right section in the future. TIPS is for giving tips, not asking general questions. Thanks.

Moved to DJD.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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