"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do I get a response from voicemail?

Do you like to text message women after the first encounter before speaking?

  • All the Time

    Votes: 1 12.5%

  • Never, always call

    Votes: 5 62.5%

  • Depends...

    Votes: 2 25.0%

  • I dont have text messaging

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    8
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G'day people, I was curious,

WHAT TACTICS CAN WE USE FOR GETTING WOMEN TO RETURN VOICEMAILS, TEXT MESSAGES?

This is a really practical thread...

This is the usual situation:

I approach, usually in a very non-chalant way. I have an accent which girls love the first time I speak to them, so they are IOI all over the place. I usually get their number after about 5 minutes, telling them I'd better get back to studying (im in college), or that I have to meet up with friends, etc. I don't think its the approach.

I call about 1 or 2 days later, and I leave a voicemail, saying "Give me call back. This is the Australian guy you met blah blah"

Any suggestions?? Specific words we can say to get a response, or things you should do when asking for a number, how long, tone of voice when calling for the first time, (it is very rare that a girl will pickup the first time I call) or should I just NOT leave a voicemail, and call back a day or two later?

Also text messages, what have people found to be great at getting dates, return texts etc?

P.S. This isn't just me. This happens to alot of guys. The thing is I will end up hooking up with them later in about a week or two. I just find it so frustrating that they never answer, or return calls. So how do I short-circuit that defense that they seem to have up.


Cheers mates! Lets get it rolling, and lets keep it REAL...
Donovan
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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An accent can keep a woman interested for only so long. The message you leave must be interesting enough for them to return your call. Just saysing "Give me call back. This is the Australian guy you met blah blah" just ain't gonna cut it.
 
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I understand an accent wont last forever. That's not the point of this thread. The point is examples of successful voicemail/text messages that people have left, and have a good response rate to...
 
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Post in the right section in the future. TIPS is for giving tips, not asking general questions. Thanks.

Moved to DJD.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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