How do I get a religous girl? experts

[The_Mole]

there is this very religious, cute, girl in my dorm. she is a virgin and there is no way to dj her. she converses with everyone and she already knew the new resident the first day. And she is chinese. She knows how to create rapport with me or anyone. even guys that are not her race like black, mexican, white etc. She is the dj in most conversations. advice????


dang, wrong board

 

[Mephisto]

I am very new to DJing, but one man I have been following is Giacomi Casanova. This is what I think he would do in this situation. He would learn about her religion and talk to her about it and through that become closer to her.

 

[Mr.Bates]

Some people enjoy solving problems in their spare time. Whether it's an academic problem or a real-world problem, it can be a kick for some people.

It's been said that every problem has a solution. I don't necessarily agree, but that's open for debate. My point: you can treat trying to DJ this girl as if it's a fun problem for you to solve. I think the odds are stacked against you, and you may not get the solution you want. But it may be fun to try.

 

[The Edge]

Awesome!!!

Originally posted by Mephisto
but one man I have been following is Giacomi Casanova. This is what I think he would do in this situation.

Hey Mephisto,

If you have the chance, let Liz and Me know how to get in touch with this Giacomi Casanova guy..... He sounds interesting, and I think I want to follow his ways and philosophies also. Oh!! .... and less I forget, you might want to let Gio know about him too!!!!

The Edge 'Some have it, and some don't'

 

[JohnnyVegas]

Be yourself and don't care if you get her or not. Is there nothing you have learned, boy? You're pulling yourself out of the idea that YOU are the catch and placed her on the pedestal, she is now the goal.

 

[Mephisto]

Re: Awesome!!!

Originally posted by The Edge
Hey Mephisto,

If you have the chance, let Liz and Me know how to get in touch with this Giacomi Casanova guy..... He sounds interesting, and I think I want to follow his ways and philosophies also. Oh!! .... and less I forget, you might want to let Gio know about him too!!!!

The Edge 'Some have it, and some don't'

Why do I sense sarcasm? I shouldnt be given crap because I am new here for christs sake. I came here to learn not to get ripped on.

 

[The Edge]

Re: Re: Awesome!!!

Originally posted by Mephisto
Why do I sense sarcasm? I shouldnt be given crap because I am new here for christs sake. I came here to learn not to get ripped on.

I cometh forth to assist in fixing ye!! Not to break ye down!!...... Thus, allow The Edge to give you a lesson on how ye attaineth 'BROAD SHOULDERS'

NB '' T'will help you in your DJ quest as ye becometh less sensitive to sarcasm and rejection!!!! ''

The Edge 'Some have it, and some don't'

 

[wakeliquid]

I was actually with a really religious chick like that in the past.. I had known her for a long time though, so it wasn't like it was hard to talk to her. Anyway, the thing I noticed about her is that she wasn't against getting intimate, in the way a guy would like to. She just didn't want to be slutty, so she had to make sure you were really right beforehand. I suggest you try to get into the girl's interests, get to a point where she sees you as having a lot of potential.

 

[MDgood]

Mole, this chick is like no other you will have seen!

Mole, I know many, many religious college-aged girls like the one you're talking about. They are tough nuts to crack, especially if you're dealing with one whose strength and self-esteem is gained partly from her religious convictions. She is looking for romance, not firey passion or sex, and unless you impress her mightily, you won't catch her attention. Chances are very high that even if you're the love of her life, she's not going to have sex with you until you two are near to getting married. Wakeliquid is right: religious girls are not necessarily against intimacy, they are just very, very selective about who gets to be intimate with them, and they sure as hell just don't give it up.

Unfortunately, this type of girl is also looking for somebody who shares her religious intensity. You can try to get to her by learning about her religion and talking to her about it, but unless you're living it she'll be able to tell you're just making moves on her. Kino may very well work against you, so I wouldn't use it anytime soon. You don't want her to catch you drinking and partying unless she's into that as well. My advice: if you want to open the door to getting this girl attracted to you, you have to find opportunities to discuss issues of your personal relationship with God with her first, the best thing being if you try saying something about faith and religion that is insightful to her. Above all, don't kino yet and don't try to fake being religious, because she'll know you're bs-ing her!

 

[RKTek]

How do you deal with her?

The same as you would any other girl, by being a gentleMAN and appealing to her femininity and innate sexual desires.

Should your question have been: "How do I break her of the belief that she should save herself for the man she marries, on their wedding night?"

I've dated several Asian girls, all born and raised in China then later moved to the west. With one notable exception, all of them knew all about men, women, sex, marrige, dating, cuss words, pornography and every kind of relationship out there but chose not to go there. All of them were deeply rooted in their culture of seeming ironclad morality that makes the West look decadent and debauched. Most Asian women I dated knew all the games, but refused to play them.

She has all the same drives as you, but her culture tells her to wait. Wait until it feels right. Wait until she feels some type of commitment. Wait until she feels that if she gives up her virginity it won't later make her feel cheap.

Does she want sex and passion? Oh yes, maybe more than you. But she wants stability even more. You can win her but it might take more time and patience than you've ever experienced with a western woman.

Be a good DJ. If she sees something in you she likes, she'll thaw, even if it takes awhile. Don't give up your priorities or getting other ladies. And read this article:

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/persistence.htm

 

[Lionheart]

Dude it's probably not gonna happen.

If she has deep convictions, then you ain't getting nothing until wedding night, and you have to ask yourself whether it's worth it, I imagine probably not.

If she is, like most religious people, only religious when it suits them, you might be able to sweet talk her round, and probably have lots of deep conversations with her about faith and things like that.

Lionheart.

 

[The_Mole]

thats good advice mdgood. i remember when i put a bilbe verse in my aim profile, she imed me and asked me about it and if i read the bible or not. these girls only want a religious guy. my korean friend (looks asian mixed with white, even though hes full asian. he looks good. i will give him a 9 even though i'm a guy.) seems to have her interest even though he is shy. he said he would start going to church with her. i think he got this girl. but he tells me that he doesnt like her. i know he is bsing because she is F****ing cute. should i let my shy friend win this round? i want the cute virgin! dont say i sound afc because i'm not. she is the only virgin girl i know which makes here stand out from other girls.

 

[lancelot]

Tip for religious women

If she's religious and don't want sex before marriage, tell her you'll wait to marry her to have sex. (Only when she's your girlfriend of course)

When I said it to my ex girlfriend, I meant it, and we had sex a few times later. We never get married anyway.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

I am not an expert here my 2 cents.

If shes a true christian (really into her faith), God will always be first in her life and you will have to respect that. Its been said before she doesnt want sex, she doesnt want a ONS or a fling, shes wants LTR and shes waiting for the right person. Djing her will be different than most girls.

First you will have to become friends with her. YES I am not joking become friends with her first. Get to really know her and let her get to know you. All this time never let her think that you are being friends with her just to get in her panties. Never let her think that you are a player. Let her see that theres a few girls after you but you are not interested in them. You gotta indirectly let her know that you after someone different. Someone unique.

Your reason for friendship with her shouldnt be because of her looks. But because you enjoy her company and you wanna know more about her religion. And that last part has to true on your side or sooner or later she will figure out the real you.

You have to take things really slowly with this girl. But some of the other DJ rules still apply, like not being desperate(really important that you dont act desperate just cos your mate is after her and shes showing interest) not giving too much attention, but still giving her attention. Compliments have to be sincere. You still need confidence.

Girls like these take a lot of patience and hard work but are worth it if shes the type of girl you are after. Dont worry about your mate, dont compete with your mate especially in front of her. Joke around with her(but not about sex), kino will work on this girl, only after you got a bit of friendship going on with her. Tickling her and play fighting will work good.

Its also important that you are always being yourself around her (meaning your relaxed, not nervous, naturally confident). She will sense this and do the same.

Keep us posted

here my msn email, give me a bell if u need more help

deadly_asasin@hotmail.com

 

[Panda 2000]

Of which religion is she exactly?