"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do I get a girl to come home?

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I can socialize with girls very well, they all like me, i can get them to laugh... but I don't know how to close. I can feel the sexual tension, but I have no idea how to indirectly say "wanna come home with me so we can have sex"

Looking more for one night stands than anything else
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I know a perfect line, but you really have to make sure the tension is there, in play.

"wanna come home with me so we can have sex"

The thing is it doesn't matter much what you say.

"Come with me"

"lets get out of here"

"What kind of underwear you have on"..."oh i got to see these" grab and hand and go.
 

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scrouds said:
I know a perfect line, but you really have to make sure the tension is there, in play.

"wanna come home with me so we can have sex"

The thing is it doesn't matter much what you say.

"Come with me"

"lets get out of here"

"What kind of underwear you have on"..."oh i got to see these" grab and hand and go.
I agree, if the tension is there Big Time then you can pretty much get away with anything at that point, as long as you don't creep them out.

"what would you like for breakfast in the morning?"

"want to go back to mine for (coffee,movie, whatever) but keep your hands to yourself lady."

or just plainly, without mentioning sex

"let's go to my place"
 

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Im definately trying the breakfast in the morning line next time im out! :crackup:

This seems to be my sticking point at the moment as well, can easily get the kiss close + number, sometimes even more in the club, just cant close for a ONS ffs...hah
 

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all time easiest way to get girls to go with you:

"what are you doing after this?" ... if she says "nothing", offer "want to come back to my house?"

(I sort of wish more guys would try this because its the only thing I have ever done that works)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whether she comes home with you or not depends on how solid your game is and how much you get her to invest on you (by qualifying) .

Anyway , if you think your game is good and she has invested enough on you during , than you can just say lets go to my house , ill show you something.

If you're not comfortable with just calling her home , tell her to come to watch a movie or to drink some whine you got from a friend from another country or something similar.

I don't say anything. I just lead them. To the cab , " where are we going ?" , " We're getting out of this club "..

Then when you get to the location , tell her that youll get up earlier tomorrow so she can come just for some minutes.

Lead her.
 
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