"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do I get a girl that likes me out of my life?

Production6257

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Yea, you're probably right. I'm just a little p!ssed at her for everything and I don't like her in general. I think the best, most realistic think for me to do is the next time she tries to make a move, I'll just tell her straight up that I don't like her. I'm just worried about her trying to sleep in my bed again. What do I say to that? I think that I'll be so p!ssed that I don't get to sleep in comfort that I'll say something that I regret (when she slept in my bed last time she took up 80% of the bed, had me in a death grip, and proceeded to snore in my face). If she tries to pull that again, I may just lay down next to her and literally kick her off the bed. Any ideas as to what to say if she tries to pull that again? Because that isn't necessarily the best time to say "I don't like you".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jamescr73

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Chicks have friends, and yes, you definitely dont want it going around that you are afc, childish, immature or whatever. What you need to do, is LJBF her. Treat her like one of the guys. No more making out with her or whatever. Become her friend, dont treat her like **** because as we all know treating girls like **** makes them like you more. Duh. Be her friend, and bang her friends. That is your new goal. :up:
 

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"Be her friend and bang her friends"- I like it. The only problem with that is that I don't like her as a friend either. She's very irritating to be around. It's like a bad combination of a bland personality combined with a really crappy and annoying sense of humor. Also, even if I LJBF'ed her, her friends would probably still feel weird hooking up with me because they'd know that she likes me.
 

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yeah, but if you treat her like shlt and tell her you dont want anything to do with her, she will tell her friends and her friends will hate you too. So i guess you have a predicament.
So heres what you need to do, get drunk, bang her, have her tell all of her friends how good you are, then bang all of her friends. :crackup:
 
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