"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How do i game this girl???
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Igetit!
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Igetit!
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There are some things that can make it easier,though. First,hang out with some of your friends.Also,if there are other girls you are interested in,go after them.Believe me,you'll be so busy trying to understand them and figure them out you mind won't have time to even think about the girl you are ignoring.
Oh,by the way,whatever happened with that fat girl? I know you said that it was taken care of,but I'm curious.What exactly did you do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I told that girl about the other two girls like you said.
Igetit!
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I'm not saying that there is no way out of the friendzone,but if there is,I don't know what it is.So look,if you want to talk to her,talk to her.If you want to respond,then respond,but the chances of you and her dating are very slim.
Igetit!
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You don't have to say straight out,"Leave me alone. I don't want to talk to you."But if you ignore her enough,she'll either try to date you or leave you alone.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.