"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There's this girl that i showed interest in about a year ago but i just gave up. She is really flirty and is probably one of the class slvts, but i feel like i need to test myself here. On facebook or something she compared movie interest with me and i saw a notification. We were a "terrible match" on the movie compatability thing so i sent here a message saying "it looks like you have horrible taste in movies." and she responded with "haha thanks
no i just dont reallylike the ones they put on there :p
haha." How should i respond and carry this convo. She is an AW and most of the girls i try to game are typically "good girls."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Would this work as a resonse. "Since were a terrible match it looks like we won't be seeing many movies together. Sucks for you :p."
 

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You said you were into this girl a year ago but gave up. That should mean you nexted her, and she is now old news. And on top of that she is an AW. Sounds to me like you're wasting your time.
 

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Yeah, it sounds like you're wasting your time, but to be sure, go straight for the jugular.
"yeah right, you haven't even seen my movies! Tell you what, come over tomorrow and let's watch something GOOD (my list)."
 

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Yep, go for all the marbles if you haven't already. Least amount of effort per vagina attained is optimal.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok so there's another girl that i just met yesterday night at church w/ my friend. We've never talked b4 but when i got home she messaged me on facebook, we talked you know the basic fluff. I'm a big flirt so this girl ended up giving me her number w/o me asking for it. I find this as a major sign of interest. She's a year under me, and told my friend this morning she wanted to talk to me so she called me this morning at 10am.... I usually don't get up till like 12 or 1. Anyways she starts hitting on me again we flirt. She said something about being too good for me and i said something like "babe, your a 9, but i'm an 11" and she laughed..... So now, my friend who introduced us says she likes someone else. But why would she show all this interest if she didn't like me at all??? How do i handle this. i still haven't called her.... Ok now i find out that she's going out w/ some guy tonight. Idc, but i don't like being played. Why flirt w/ me when your going out w/ some guy tonight, why wake me up at 10am when your going out w/ some guy tonight. So how should i handle this??? I really need help here........
 

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New girl i just met last night.... Read my latest post. Sorry deleted this by accident lmao
 

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When was the last time you talked to this girl,and what was the conversation like?Be detailed as possible.
 

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ok well. I had a convo w/ her at 10am like i said. She called me up.
Her: Hey
Me: Hey why are you calling me so early? I need my beauty sleep
Her: Laughing sorry i couldn't resist you.
Me: Not many people can. I'm laughing.
Her: Yeah but your not as hot as me.
Me: Laughing really?
Her: Yeah sorry laughing
Me: Babe your a 9, but i'm an 11
Her: Laughs
Me: YOu disagree?
Her: No i actually don't laughing
Me: Listen, i gtg do some more reading for school. U can call me later if you want.
Her: Ok i will. Promise.

That was basically the conversation. I thought i did pretty well. But now she's going out w/ someone else..
 

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Do you know for a fact she is seeing someone else,or is this just something you heard?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well my best friend is friends w/ her and she told him they were going out tonight or something. I'm thinking wtf????? But i'm not gonna be afc about. I'm not gonna let it bother me. She isn't my girl, but then again i don't like it when i get played. You have advice on what to do?
 

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Yeah,I have a suggestion or 2.First,move on with your life.Judging from your previous posts,meeting girls isnt a problem for you.You had at last count what,a crazy girl,a fat girl,and a girl from N.Y. all of who were interested in you,right?So forget about this girl.However,if she does call you on the phone,dont sound excited to talk to her.Give her the impression that you havent given her a single thought in the past couple of days.Tell her that you have been having fun hanging out with your frineds,going to different places,meeting new people,meeting other girls.If she tries to get you to spend time with her,say something like,"Well,to be honest with you,I`m kind of busy,but if I can find the time,maybe.I dont know."You know how girls always give us mixed signals?Well,give them back to her.
 

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Yeah, i'm not dwelling on it, but getting played isn't my cup of tea. I've never initiated contact w/ her. But she seemed pretty cool when i talked to her. I think i'll do that. what if she messages me online or something? I don't want to sound conceited so how would i go about that? She's messaged me on facebook a couple times..
 

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Does she have you phone number?
 

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Yeah she does..... I didn't give it to her. She asked my friend for it and she gave me her number w/o me asking for it. Don't get me wrong she's fine, but she's kinda pissing me off. I wish kontroller x would respond to this thread. He's got so much wisdom
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good.This is perfect.Alright,check this out.If she tries to contact you in ANY other way other than by phone,ignore it.If she tries to contact you by email,myspace,facebook,through a friend,text message,telegram,carrier pigeon,whatever it is,if its not by phone,forget it.Then,when she finally does call,you the first thing you say to her is,"Who is this?"Even if you know it is her,say that anyway.Then,when she tells you her name,you say,"Oh hey,what`up?Then she is going to start asking you why you havent been calling her or responding to her messages.Then you tell her that you`ve so busy lately,you just havent had the time.You know whats going to happen?Shes going to get jealous,because everything and everbody else besides her is getting your attention.But when you talk to her on the phone,dont sound angry,or mad.Just sound normal,as if you talk to her everyday.
 

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Ughhhhhhhhhhhhh she got so annoying tonight that i gave in. She messaged me over and over again even though i wasn't responding and it was messing w/ my music...... god i'm a chump. i waited like 10 minutes and she kept messaging me. So i said something like "oh hey, i didn't notice you were messaging me."
 

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Jokerlsk said:
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhh she got so annoying tonight that i gave in. She messaged me over and over again even though i wasn't responding and it was messing w/ my music...... god i'm a chump. i waited like 10 minutes and she kept messaging me. So i said something like "oh hey, i didn't notice you were messaging me."
Sounds like this chick's IL is approaching MAX level. What's stopping you? Strike while the iron's hot.
 

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Sounds like this chick's IL is approaching MAX level. What's stopping you? Strike while the iron's hot.
Exactly. When a chick is falling for you like this, I see no reason to ignore her. Just keep your cool.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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