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Don Juan
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How do I follow-up a One Night Stand? (Pick an Option!)
Guys, I keep running into new situations! I've never had a one-night stand, and just had one. When / how do I contact after?
Situation:
FRIDAY: I met this OKC chick at a bar - we had been casually texting for a week. I saw her for 2 hours, then went to a house party. Next thing I know, I meet her at another bar at like 1am.
After an hour she says "I want to go to your place right now!" (Amazing).
We go there, have sex.. I didn't even have sheets on the bed. We stay in bed, just cuddling I guess., until Sat 10am.
She's a bit hungover, acting a bit quiet. I offered her a toothbrush and took her to brunch... conversation was OK. I then dropped her at her car and kissed for a bit.
What's my next move? I've added some choices to make it easier for feedback.
1 - Text her today something like "Was just thinking about [something witty about fun that night" today (2.5 days later) wait for response, then ask her out.
2 - Text her randomly during the week asking her to meet up that evening
3 - Text her randomly during the week asking her to meet up the next night.
4 - Something else?
Guys, I keep running into new situations! I've never had a one-night stand, and just had one. When / how do I contact after?
Situation:
FRIDAY: I met this OKC chick at a bar - we had been casually texting for a week. I saw her for 2 hours, then went to a house party. Next thing I know, I meet her at another bar at like 1am.
After an hour she says "I want to go to your place right now!" (Amazing).
We go there, have sex.. I didn't even have sheets on the bed. We stay in bed, just cuddling I guess., until Sat 10am.
She's a bit hungover, acting a bit quiet. I offered her a toothbrush and took her to brunch... conversation was OK. I then dropped her at her car and kissed for a bit.
What's my next move? I've added some choices to make it easier for feedback.
1 - Text her today something like "Was just thinking about [something witty about fun that night" today (2.5 days later) wait for response, then ask her out.
2 - Text her randomly during the week asking her to meet up that evening
3 - Text her randomly during the week asking her to meet up the next night.
4 - Something else?
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