"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do i fit in society with the world so people wont resent me or be negative?

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Okay well i have been living life and not caring and well my friend has fb and i dont use it anymore. We just goofin around and he looks up to me because im doing better he asks me questions i feel like i said a little too much sayin about being your best self and man or woman depending on woman and find your inner core and i love my women i said kind of sarcastically. And i rapped on there as my skills have increased since and i noticed after video that people were disliking my old page when i looked back. So how do i live in society and put on a mask to make it seem like i still have beliefs about marriage or whatever etc... Or people dont see me as better or successful so they will not try to be behind my back tryin to mess my groove up that i have created?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CuddleJunkie

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Wow man, that was hard to read, work on that.

To answer your question...we're a counterculture, our values and beliefs (or at least our beliefs, as there are different value-systems on the community: machivellian, neo-masculin, old-school resistance, player...) are not only different, but also go against our western societies. If you decide to be upfront about what you do, I would recommend that you get in touch with neo-masculinity guys, they seem to unite game and political activism; now, it seems like you want to remain hidden while following the DonJuan path. Look into the dark-triad then, but remember to not go full psycopath mode, it will be counterproductive in the long run if you are not specially skilled, and even then, you can't be happy with such a lifestyle if you are not a real psycopath. Anyhow, the dark-triad approach should teach you about using different masks to hide your DonJuan side.

Good luck bro.
 
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Dark triad sounds like best option because the past knew me as a goofy dude so i would say i have to hide my ways. What do i need to do or read or get to do for this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I say keep doing what youa re doing and drop the act of trying to be acepted, its like I say to my friends, since I'm blunt and make fun on stupid things around us and don't care if they will like or not, hey you still come back so i'm doing things right.

don't let people pull you on they lvl they will try just so they can break your will and confidence.

also another thing I have 2 friends who are in one of my social circles, both are personal trainers the male one is kinda jealous of me and try to make fun out of me, he can't and I always open a new one on him when he tries, plus once he get drunk he said some nice things about me, I still poke fun out of him saying how jealous he is of me, the other female is just kinda fun teasing and flirting, plus she do love to yell my name inside teh gym when she sees me.

pretty sure some people don't like? yes, will I change to fit what tehy think is right? no way in hell they opnions don't matter, as long you are not hurting you or others I don't see a problem
 
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so they don't like you, so what? They crucified the only perfect man to ever walk the earth. If you're really worried about it, become black belt and a top hand with rifle and pistol, and have a cache of supplies. That's something concrete and positive. If you aint that worried, then why be worried at all? Joke 'em if they can't take a fvck.
 

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When it comes to social Circle I find the main thing is to offer the hand and keep offering it. Concrete example last night I was playing with my tennis partner little Jen. She and her bloke r good value. I've made social invitations in the past and she's been a bit standoffish. Last night we were yapping away after the game and I thought what the hell. Got an invite over to her place for dinner. So it's the same thing is picking up chicks stay polite when they are being crappy. And make progress when it is there to be made. If you're looking for redpill mates why not try posting on the wing man forum here.
 

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never said he did. Just pointing out that the majority of people in your life aint gonna like you, so why bother yourself about it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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