"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do I explain this to her?

Beginner1

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I met this girl at a bar a week ago, we talked once on the phone since then and the conversation ended very quick because I said i was tired and that i would call her the next night.

Here is the problem, I lost my cell the very next day and, on top of that when I tried to call my cell company to just retrieve the number that I dialed recently, they said they could not do anything for me because I dialed it within the current billing cycle and only a court supoena could get it. Now I must hope she calls me or wait 3 weeks so I can see my cell bill and then call her.

Whatever I say it is going to sound like complete BS to her.
This really sucks cause she seems like a "good girl". Not a party girl at all.

Any suggestions on what I can say so it doesn't sound so made up?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JackPrescott

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Whats wrong with party girls? Dont you like women who frequent dance clubs just to dance?
 

squirrels

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Tell her you lost your cellphone.

Geez...if she can't get over it, she must not have been that interested in the first place.

Relax.
 

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This really sucks cause she seems like a "good girl". Not a party girl at all. [/B]


You dont know that stop romanticising. Just relax and act happy when it all goes down;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Climax

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Tell the truth, if she dont believe you, too bad.
 

LongDrinkofWater

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Yep, just tell her the truth the next time you see her. Keep in mind that this can be used in your favor. It's usually easy to tell when someone is telling the truth, and by doing so (provided of course she believes you) you should gain a point or two.....
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
Tell her you lost your cellphone.

Geez...if she can't get over it, she must not have been that interested in the first place.

Relax.
Exactly! This is not a big deal are you in 5th grade or something? Just tell her exactly what you told us and if she's mature she'll say ok and then you two will continue on where you left off.
 

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just say you lost her number when your lost your phone and had no way to contact her. don't go into too much detail unless she asks specifically or you'll start to sound scripted.

THEN you knock on her for not calling you!
 
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