"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do I determine when to ask her out again??

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jackhamma

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I need you guys to educate me on this in detail please.

I slept with this girl. I work with her. I have played it so cool and confidenet from start to now but since I slept with her I get urges to reach out more, ask her out more often, text her more etc.

At work we are extremely professional but since sleeping with her was so recent and it was good I can't go about my day without thinking to txt her etc.

Now I have not given in. I have not changed my game play but....if I want her hitting ME up...I have to be scarce right? Not txt not reach out etc? or is it ok to ask her out often?

Please help me understand..

also shes freshly 22yrs old.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Since she's a decent bit younger than you, you can change your game up a little now that you've slept together. Don't text her, but you can initiate a little more physical contact at work (touching elbows, shoulder, etc.). You're pretty much good to go right now, as long as you don't get weird.

When you go to work social events, don't linger. You can shoot her "knowing eyes" or whatever you want to call it, but don't crowd her space.

It sounds like you're doing just fine. Just keep up the good work!
 
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jackhamma said:
I need you guys to educate me on this in detail please.

I slept with this girl. I work with her. I have played it so cool and confidenet from start to now but since I slept with her I get urges to reach out more, ask her out more often, text her more etc.

At work we are extremely professional but since sleeping with her was so recent and it was good I can't go about my day without thinking to txt her etc.

Now I have not given in. I have not changed my game play but....if I want her hitting ME up...I have to be scarce right? Not txt not reach out etc? or is it ok to ask her out often?

Please help me understand..

also shes freshly 22yrs old.
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Bro you got to be kidding right?

I NEVER understand guys when they come into the forum with questions like this. They do everything right, hit up the hot up young girl at work, have sex with the girl, and THEN they are confused what to do? It's like the roles have reversed.

Just do the same things you were doing before you had sex with her. Nothing more, nothing less.

It's like the hockey team that wins 5 in a row with some rookies, but then change their lineup in the 6th game because the veteran injured players have healed and are back. Just stick with the same lineup! :kick:
 
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