How do I determine when to ask her out again??

[jackhamma]

I need you guys to educate me on this in detail please.

I slept with this girl. I work with her. I have played it so cool and confidenet from start to now but since I slept with her I get urges to reach out more, ask her out more often, text her more etc.

At work we are extremely professional but since sleeping with her was so recent and it was good I can't go about my day without thinking to txt her etc.

Now I have not given in. I have not changed my game play but....if I want her hitting ME up...I have to be scarce right? Not txt not reach out etc? or is it ok to ask her out often?

Please help me understand..

also shes freshly 22yrs old.

 

[TheSplat]

Since she's a decent bit younger than you, you can change your game up a little now that you've slept together. Don't text her, but you can initiate a little more physical contact at work (touching elbows, shoulder, etc.). You're pretty much good to go right now, as long as you don't get weird.

When you go to work social events, don't linger. You can shoot her "knowing eyes" or whatever you want to call it, but don't crowd her space.

It sounds like you're doing just fine. Just keep up the good work!

 

[Trump]

I need you guys to educate me on this in detail please.

I slept with this girl. I work with her. I have played it so cool and confidenet from start to now but since I slept with her I get urges to reach out more, ask her out more often, text her more etc.

At work we are extremely professional but since sleeping with her was so recent and it was good I can't go about my day without thinking to txt her etc.

Now I have not given in. I have not changed my game play but....if I want her hitting ME up...I have to be scarce right? Not txt not reach out etc? or is it ok to ask her out often?

Please help me understand..

also shes freshly 22yrs old.

Bro you got to be kidding right?

I NEVER understand guys when they come into the forum with questions like this. They do everything right, hit up the hot up young girl at work, have sex with the girl, and THEN they are confused what to do? It's like the roles have reversed.

Just do the same things you were doing before you had sex with her. Nothing more, nothing less.

It's like the hockey team that wins 5 in a row with some rookies, but then change their lineup in the 6th game because the veteran injured players have healed and are back. Just stick with the same lineup! :kick: