How do I deal With this Hot Little Roommate?

[Bauer]

Hey guys,

I just got an apartment with a hot little 19 year old blonde I've been friends with for awhile. This chick is an AW to the fullest extent possible and responds heavily to being ignored.

We've hooked up a few times when we weren't living together and it was real easy to play this game with her when we weren't living together.

Now that we're roommates, I slipped a little bit the first couple days by giving her too much attention and saw her interest take a dive.

My question is, now that I will see this chick on a day to day basis, how do I act/behave indifferently with her, when she's around 24/7?

Can anyone with more experience than me give some pointers/advice/guidelines to follow for my behavior around the house, so I don't slip and get her interest back up?

Maybe this is a stupid question, but I'm not sure how to do the whole ignore/indifference to her thing when I will see her face-to-face everyday without coming off like a ****head - unless that's what I should be shooting for?

Any help would be great Gents!

 

[Tictac]

Don't sh*t where you eat.

 

[Julian]

Lol just bring some ass home to fuk..she will get with the program

 

[Young OG]

You should have never moved in with her if you want to bang her. This is going to blow up in your face eventually. You need to either become exclusive with her or stop trying to bang her.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Every single "game" tactic people try to use is to SIMULATE real behavior of a confident man with options, or somebody who doesn't give two fvcks, but isn't out to purposely hurt anybody.

To that end, you should HEED THE ADVICE given and NOT attempt to bang this girl EVER AGAIN.

To "behave correctly," or to calibrate your "outer game" you must first align your INNER GAME.

CONVINCE YOURSELF and believe yourself why banging this girl is a BAD BAD BAD idea, until you no longer think she's bangable, all things considered.

Then your outer game will fall in line, she'll notice you, come on to you, you'll crumble, bang her, and she'll stab your eyes out with an ice pick while you sleep.

WIN!

 

[Bauer]

Thanks Gents for the feedback. Really appreciate.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Bauer,
Agree with Tic-Tac....In this Country you would be considered a Common law Couple,she could throw you out of your own home...It happens...Also she can try the Non Consensual Svex Routine if you upset her...Don't put your hand on it.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Dear Lord , you are 26 man............you should know you do not sh1t where you eat.

 

[lifeislearning]

Don't do it. I've sworn off female roommates until marriage. No good can come of it. Think short term VS long term rewards. A better living situation is so much preferable to the drama that comes from boning your roomie.

...But lets all be honest, you're gonna get drunk and bang her at some point and F it all up

 

[Bauer]

So true. I believe I dun goofed. Thinking with my d*ck and not my head. This is going to be a long 9 months. Hopefully I can make the best of it.

 

[Young OG]

Thinking with my d*ck and not my head

Your not the first guy to do that. Just make sure you are learning from your mistakes. No matter how hard it is, you can't bang her. Move out as soon as you can.

 

[Bauer]

Would if I could YoungOG. She's renting a room in my apartment. Best case scenario is she can find somewhere else to go. Unfortunately no other friends can take her in for 9 months. And I'm pretty sure she wants to stay since I've been trying to make it difficult for her to live with me but she won't leave.

 

[WanderingMan]

Every single "game" tactic people try to use is to SIMULATE real behavior of a confident man with options, or somebody who doesn't give two fvcks, but isn't out to purposely hurt anybody.

To that end, you should HEED THE ADVICE given and NOT attempt to bang this girl EVER AGAIN.

To "behave correctly," or to calibrate your "outer game" you must first align your INNER GAME.

CONVINCE YOURSELF and believe yourself why banging this girl is a BAD BAD BAD idea, until you no longer think she's bangable, all things considered.

Then your outer game will fall in line, she'll notice you, come on to you, you'll crumble, bang her, and she'll stab your eyes out with an ice pick while you sleep.

WIN!

This pretty much sums it up.

 

[Bauer]

All Gaming Aside...

Alright so realizing my massive mistake, and consulting with you guys and taking the advice given here before making another one...I need some practical advice on actually living with this chick to retain my sanity.

Ever since she moved in shes been very awkward. Distant, avoiding me, not very talkative and withdrawn.

Over the weekend she went to Nevada with some friends and it was nice having my place all to myself.

She came home Sunday night, and it's back to that same awkward/distance thing making me feel completely uncomfortable in my own house.

Since she's got no where else to go for the time being and I'm going to have to put up with this, how do you guys recommend living under the same roof with this chick?

Play the same distance/withdrawn role with her? Don't try and initiate any conversation? Try and bring her out of her shell? I really don't know what to do now that's shes actually living with me and the situation completely blows.

 

[Tictac]

How would you treat any other renter?

If she doesn't want to be social, keep it to business.

Her mood could change tomorrow.

 

[Bauer]

How would you treat any other renter?

If she doesn't want to be social, keep it to business.

Her mood could change tomorrow.

Understood. Thanks Tictac. Simple enough of an answer for me to completely overlook it since I'm so wrapped up in this. Need to get my head on straight. Thanks again!