"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I deal with this guy?

BPH

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Quoted from my journal:

Alright but here's my problem right now. There's a guy on the team, sophomore, and he's putting down some of my teammates. He was saying that some of the sports a couple of these guys play (golf, tennis) require "tampons to play". Then he targeted a single guy and started talking to him about how he was faster and stronger than the guy. At that point I tell this kid to shut up, he focuses his attention on me and starts telling me to "get the d*** outta my butt" and that he's going to "lay me out next year". What annoys me is that this guy was a nerdy kid, never started varsity, and was awful with the ladies.

Now he's got a girlfriend (HB Sam believe it or not) and is on the winning baseball team (albeit a JV player). I told him that I couldn't wait to mess him up on the field next year and that "I'd remind him what he came from, and send him back".

How do I deal with this kid? I won't let him disrespect teammates or me. I could always beat him up, but I'm sure there's a better way to go about this, so tell me what that way is.

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Today I stopped him in the hall and told him that he can't be putting down my guys. He just blew me off, rolled his eyes, and kept walking.

How do I deal with this guy? I kinda wanna beat him to a pulp
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Juat keep calling him out on his bs and make him want to figgt you. Omce he puts his hands on you lay him out.
 

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When I was younger, If the guy was disrespectful to people and his actions bothered me, Id verbalize to him to cut the crap out. If he does great, but if he doesnt I wreck the guy when we play. If Im going to check the guy Im going to make sure it counts
 

Cyclops

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If you play baseball, you could get the pitcher to throw a ball just past his head. Piss me off enough and you are getting hit
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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irocknike23

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lmao baseball?

at first i thought this was football, how do you lay someone out in baseball?
 
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