"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do I deal with this guy?

BPH

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Quoted from my journal:

Alright but here's my problem right now. There's a guy on the team, sophomore, and he's putting down some of my teammates. He was saying that some of the sports a couple of these guys play (golf, tennis) require "tampons to play". Then he targeted a single guy and started talking to him about how he was faster and stronger than the guy. At that point I tell this kid to shut up, he focuses his attention on me and starts telling me to "get the d*** outta my butt" and that he's going to "lay me out next year". What annoys me is that this guy was a nerdy kid, never started varsity, and was awful with the ladies.

Now he's got a girlfriend (HB Sam believe it or not) and is on the winning baseball team (albeit a JV player). I told him that I couldn't wait to mess him up on the field next year and that "I'd remind him what he came from, and send him back".

How do I deal with this kid? I won't let him disrespect teammates or me. I could always beat him up, but I'm sure there's a better way to go about this, so tell me what that way is.

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Today I stopped him in the hall and told him that he can't be putting down my guys. He just blew me off, rolled his eyes, and kept walking.

How do I deal with this guy? I kinda wanna beat him to a pulp
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Juat keep calling him out on his bs and make him want to figgt you. Omce he puts his hands on you lay him out.
 

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When I was younger, If the guy was disrespectful to people and his actions bothered me, Id verbalize to him to cut the crap out. If he does great, but if he doesnt I wreck the guy when we play. If Im going to check the guy Im going to make sure it counts
 

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If you play baseball, you could get the pitcher to throw a ball just past his head. Piss me off enough and you are getting hit
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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irocknike23

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lmao baseball?

at first i thought this was football, how do you lay someone out in baseball?
 
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