How do I cure death grip/ unable to climate during sexual intercourse

[Trainwreck]

I didn't have sex till I was 19, so I think that might be the issue. However, my friends fap too and they still don't have any trouble finishing during sex. How do I cure this curse lol?

 

[Couto]

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Bro first off I'ma go ahead and put a big ass "no homo" sign infront of everything I'm going to say.

I'm dealing with the same issue and it depends on what kind of problem it is exactly. When you fap are you able to *** at all? Or do you never *** when you fap? If you never *** even when you fap then you have a physiological issue going on.
If you are able to *** when you fap but not during vagina sex time then it's because, in using your hand you've trained your penis to *** or "bust nuts" due to either speed, tightness or both. But you're able to move your hand faster then you can move your hips in and out of a vagina AND you're able to increase the tightness plus in fapping it's dry as opposed to the nice... wet... moist... vagina that we want. The idea to fix this is to due two things one; DON'T ****ING FAP. When you're not fapping your penis becomes more sensitive and it makes any kind of stimulation feel more intense. Another thing (this is where the no homo comes into play) spit on your fingers, lay down, close your eyes and just rub around the glands of your penis head in an attempt to rebuild sensation in that area, still not allowed to fap.

I havent *** from sex... ever even when I had a gf for 8 months with constant sex because I couldn't stop jerking off. However when I stopped jerking off and starting playing with my **** head for a month I had noticed a much larger increase in sensivity. The only benefit of deathgrip is that we can literally beat the **** out of the ***** and make girls keep wanting to come back. Send me a pic of your first busted nut from sex so I feel like I've made the world a better place (no homo)

 

[Jetleg]

Lol @Couto the "no homo" disclaimer was a good start

I agree with @Couto. But i have to add that it is ALSO a physiological "issue". when you are watching porn you can decide what you wanna watch, and the women are generally better looking than in real life...

Fapping = Enemy. When i do not fap i find my self spending more time on studying, working out and just using my time better. Fapping is OK when you do it moderately and you should always use lube, it would make it worse if you do it dry.

Stimulation does increase when you fap less, it has something to do with neurons and how sensations are felt. ever wondered why your feet are ticklish or just try to touch the roof of your mouth with your tongue and you'll notice it is very sensitive.

I also had this problem and i just fap less (cant stop completely ...) doing cow girl position helps.

Happy fapping.

 

[Dingo]

Are you fapping before real sex to try to last longer ? Sometimes that does it.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I don't think women care how you finish. Jack off on her, and she should be happy.

 

[Jetleg]

I don't think women care how you finish. Jack off on her, and she should be happy.

A lot of women see it as an insult when you dont *** inside them (with or without condom, doesnt matter)

but who gives a f*ck

 

[Trainwreck]

A lot of women see it as an insult when you dont *** inside them (with or without condom, doesnt matter)

but who gives a f*ck

I pretty much jacked off on her tits last time after sex. I kind of see it as a blessing and a curse because I don't have worry much about pregnancy scares and I can last however I need.

 

[Infern0]

I had this problem and it was due to jerking off too much.

I toned it down a lot to 1-2 a week and now it's fine.

If you are in a relationship then just don't fap at all, you have no reason to and you are diminishing your sex life.

 

[bigneil]

I started having this issue when I was 41 and thought it was due to old age, or from jerking off too much, but once I started working out with a physical trainer 3 times a week for one hour each time, this problem almost instantly went away. Since then, the sex has been the best of my life.