"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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rascal99v

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kind of a waste of time because she will just lie more. you know she lies so admitting it really is no good.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bukowski_merit said:
I'm sure it could be applied in different ways. Having the reputation and running with a circle of friends who also have the reputation (of being male*****s). Having access to drugs or sex parties, etc. would probably work too.

My personal self - i explore a woman's sexual history within the first 5 minutes of knowing her most of the time. My frame is sex sex sex... They accept it, or they're blown out quick.

When talking sex...

I accept the "dritiest" things they've ever done when they tell me.

I high five them and smile at dirty things they say. "That's kinky as sh!t!! I love it!"

What they see now is a guy who isn't going to be jealous of their past; isn't going to get jealous if they're fvcking other guys, isn't scared to esplore their inner most taboo desires.

This will get to the point where a woman will openly tell me she's screwing other guys. And will openly tell me that they don't know I exist.... When pressed for why I know and the other guys don't, it's always "because you're different."

This is at least 50% of it.... The rest - would fill a book.

But in my opinion - this is a big reason women in my life are so much more open with me....

A friend of mine who's a good looking dude and good with girls will be in a bar or wherever an within 5 mins he's saying something like "I know you have a big huge dildo there's nothing wrong with it, probably right in your night stand next to ur bed", or something along those lines but he'll say it very casually within the frame o the conversation and with confidence like as if he was talking to one of his guy friends about guy stuff. Friends of ours will look t him in shock and expect the chick to slap him across te face. Instead they buy right into it and eat it up and give him the reply he wants. Girls like a guy hos not afraid to say these things. They want to be talked to the way you would talk to ur friends ether than have you tip toe around them like theyre used to getting from most guys. Of course this isn't so easy if you're not somewhat attractive, but the biggest thing is the confidence and tone and how casual and comfortable you are saying it. Their reaction is dictated by how you present it. It works wonders and my friend has stated many times that he says things like this right away so as to not waste time and find out what the chick is all about. Far more often than not it works too
 

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incognito42 said:
A friend of mine who's a good looking dude and good with girls will be in a bar or wherever an within 5 mins he's saying something like "I know you have a big huge dildo there's nothing wrong with it, probably right in your night stand next to ur bed", or something along those lines but he'll say it very casually within the frame o the conversation and with confidence like as if he was talking to one of his guy friends about guy stuff. Friends of ours will look t him in shock and expect the chick to slap him across te face. Instead they buy right into it and eat it up and give him the reply he wants. Girls like a guy hos not afraid to say these things. They want to be talked to the way you would talk to ur friends ether than have you tip toe around them like theyre used to getting from most guys. Of course this isn't so easy if you're not somewhat attractive, but the biggest thing is the confidence and tone and how casual and comfortable you are saying it. Their reaction is dictated by how you present it. It works wonders and my friend has stated many times that he says things like this right away so as to not waste time and find out what the chick is all about. Far more often than not it works too

I believe it. Sounds like some of the sh1t I'd say. Could be a very effective line to be used in a club for some of the younger dudes on here. You should make your own thread on that line. Non-chalantly in quick conversation tell them they most likely "don't need" a man as they probably have their own vibrator/ big thick dildo waiting for them in their room. It will get chicks h0rny if they find you attractive enough and you just don't give a fvk and come out with a line like it's nothing.
 
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