"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MVick173

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I was speakin to a girl today, and I walked up to her and i asked her and said so we chillin saturday rite, and she said sure y not. But I realy thought she was playin around wit me wen she said sure y not, so I looked her in the eye and I sad look in my eyes and tell me if it look like I'm jokin and she said okkk. so then I was walkin wit her and she said so wat we gon do, and I said I don't know I'll tell you tommorow, so guys wat should I do wit her. like wat kind of date should this be, mind you I just met this girl like 4 days ago.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Porky

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Alright. No offense, but you've made a few AFC mistakes. You should have had a date in mind in the first place.

Go bowling.
 

MVick173

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thats it

thats all you got in mind, any other dates or anything else I need to know
 

Porky

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Would you like me to walk you through the date?

Experience is everything. She isn't the first girl you've had an interest in, and she won't be the last. If you lose her because she doesn't like the date, then you know better for next time.
 

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Yeah, don't go to the movies on a first date. DO something with action. Bowling is a good one, rollerskating, iceskating, hiking, biking, mini-golf, play pool (my Fav), a park, a zoo, fly a kite or something god dammit! All over this site there are plenty of good ideas for a date. My first dates usually consist of action, then something scenic romantic, then a coffee house with live music where we willsnuggle on the couch and kiss.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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