How do i become popular?

[Rint]

How do i become popular i dont want to tell you wat type of person i aim i just want pointers. I want to b popular I want the majority of ppl to like me especially girls or everyone my main goal in life is to b thought of and to b comftable around by everyone not possible but it's a dream. I want to b popular so that my cell wont stop ringing and ppl say hi to me all the time when i walk by and want to talk to me. Any pointers? Please.....

 

[[]D [] []V[] []D]

You might as well ask brad Pitt....

Anyways not everyone in thsi world is gonna like you. You have to understand that.

But if you wanna be popular... you jus have to be funny and be the center of all your conversations. Tease girls and respect guys (esp the gangster ones) and make friends

 

[The Master Disaster]

Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D

Anyways not everyone in thsi world is gonna like you. You have to understand that.

It seems your a introvert kind of person when you become extrovert Not everyone is gonna like you because some people percieve extrovert people to be jerks. I'm extrovert. But I don't get how people say you can be funny if you work at it. Its a born skill either you have it or you don't. If you read it and make people laugh your really not funny its a journal thats funny. If you wanna be popular just have the mindset.
A. Think your better then everyone
B. Make people think your time is worth something
C. They have to appeal to you not the other way

Mindset is 50% of being popular.

Your mindset is dumb "I want everyone to like me and call me"

It doesn't work like that. And you'll be sadly dissappointed because you'll never be that.

 

[Sammo]

You have a couple of problems. The goal in itself worries me but i will get in to that in a moment.

How do i become popular i dont want to tell you wat type of person i aim i just want pointers. I want to b popular I want the majority of ppl to like me especially girls or everyone my main goal in life is to b thought of and to b comftable around by everyone not possible but it's a dream.

If it was your main goal and you wanted advice, then put a little more effort in to making your question readable. I'll do my best to make sense of this. Your main goal revolves around what other people think of you? Thats bad man. Not everyone will like you, you cant please everyone, thats why you goal is ****.

It's all about being the alpha male. Ironically, you have to stop caring so much what people think. You have to believe that you are the **** and people want to hang around you. Just do your thing, be spontaneous, and dont listen to other peoples oppinions. Fake it till you make it. Unfortunately, first impressions make up alot of what people think of you, but it can be changed. Do something thats going to build your confidence, get in to weights will help a little and will give you a healthy hobby.

I have two words: be spontaneous.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Its pretty annoying when people dont stop calling

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Originally posted by Rint
i dont want to tell you wat type of person i aim i just want pointers.

That is like phoning up a freind and saying "im not going to tell you where i am but just give me directions to get to such and such place"

I can tell you now if you aim so high you will get no where, you cant just get real popular, in reality pretty much no one is that popular.

a hand full of girls are obbsesed with me and i have guys saying hi to me as i wlak past them, but its only a small fraction of the people i actuly know, you cant reach god like status.

Tell me right now, why would people want to treat you like that? what would make some one want to say hi to you every time he walks past you?

The only thing in the world that will make him do it (dont get hypothetical with me here) is if you say hi first.

The only thing that is going to make people phone you, is if you phone them.

The only thing that is going to make some one like you is if you like them.

Treat them how you want to be treated, you cant expect people to just liek you so much for no reason, The most popular people say hi to me a lot, and i say hi to them, do you think its because they love me? NO its because the only reason they are popular is because they find a freind in everyone.

 

[DJ4Real]

It takes charisma to become really popular. For example, I can make friends easily. I'm very charismatic, not to say I don't have enemies, but I certainly have lots of friends. Just learn how to communicate with people better.

 

[KaminoSS]

very good article on this in the bible.....

 

[toddC]

just act liek the shyt....make girls laugh become friends with the guys...knowing a lot about sports really helps iwth makign new guy friends and just go to as many parties as u can.

 

[redbullfbu]

also when it comes to being friends with guys, respect them but dont be their *****. when i first moved to where i am a couple years ago i went outta my way to do gay **** for people, now i just do small favors once in awhile. u can do that but dont be to consistent with them or people will take advantage of u

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by Rint
How do i become popular i dont want to tell you wat type of person i aim i just want pointers. I want to b popular I want the majority of ppl to like me especially girls or everyone my main goal in life is to b thought of and to b comftable around by everyone not possible but it's a dream. I want to b popular so that my cell wont stop ringing and ppl say hi to me all the time when i walk by and want to talk to me. Any pointers? Please.....

THIS IS FUNNY. I ALWAYS SEE IN THE HIGH SCHOOL SECTION KIDS THAT WANT TO BECOME COOL. "HOW DO I MAKE FRIENDS?"

ANYWAY, YOU COULD EITHER CONFORM TO WHAT ALL THE COOL KIDS ARE DOING, BY ACTING LIKE THEM AND EMPTYING YOUR BANK ACCOUNT BUYING A PAIR OF BOXERS AT ABERCROMBIE AND FITCH!

OR YOU CAN JUST BE YOUR NATURAL SELF. NOT WORRYING ABOUT BECOMING POPULAR AND JUST ENJOYING YOUR HIGH SCHOOL EXPERIENCE IN GENERAL.
BY TALKING TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE.
-EXPANDING YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE
-IF YOU SEE AN AQUIANTANCE AT LUNCH SIT W/ HIM/HER AND GET TO KNOW THEM
-SIT AT A DIFFERENT TABLE EACH DAY
-TALK TO ANYONE/EVERYONE NEVER THINK "OH HE/SHE'S NOT COOL ENOUGH FOR ME TO TALK TO"
-JOIN CLUBS
-DO (A) SPORT(S)
-JUST HAVE A GOOD TIME AND BE CONFIDENT IN WHAT YOU DO

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
I But I don't get how people say you can be funny if you work at it. Its a born skill either you have it or you don't.

That's just stupid. Your wit is like a muscle - the more you train it, the better/stronger it gets. How the hell else does Mystery go from a quiet kid from the suburbs to the greatest PUA of all time?

 

[The Antichrist_Star]

Popularity is severly overrated.

I will agree with MetalFortess though, you can learn how to be funny. I'm a hell of funnier now than when I was younger, and that came from practice.

AS

 

[AB500]

I But I don't get how people say you can be funny if you work at it. Its a born skill either you have it or you don't.

Stuff like that isn't very helpful. The bottom line is being "funny" is just a learned behavior, people who are "natrually" funny have just had more exposure to funny people and things.

 

[tyciol]

The first step is probably to lessen your obsession with popularity.

Find something you like to do, or something you think you might like to do, try it out and if you do, excel in it. Be confident and transfer it to school and other aspects of your life. Make good friends, be loyal to them, and don't spread **** rumours around.