how do i become more productive?

[Packers2010]

ok. i am a huge time waster. i mean tonight ALL i have done is fap. that's it. fap fap and fap some more.

it's now 11pm For **** sake! i need to make better use of my time .

would anyone know anymore tips on making better use of my time. I like self improving myslef but i have become SO lazy. i get up at noon and then do nothing all day. then when 12am rolls around. i panic and " i have done nothing all day i better stay up and do something" it's pretty bad.

do you know of anything that will keep me focused?

yes i know i need to give up faping but i find that hard too!

 

[In10se]

I used to be like you, but then I started going to the gym and met different social circles. This enabled me to have more options as far as going out and something to discipline myself during the day. Figure out a gym routine or get into a martial art, if you have limited money then you should get a job.

 

[MisterD]

Perhaps finding a new hobby. Something that interests you, bonus points if its something you can do with a group so you can expand your social circle.

There is nothing worse than free time with nothing to do but dwell. That breeds negative energy and bad decisions. Leads to over thinking, and a host of other problems.

 

[ilikecharlene]

Develop personal projects/interests.

I usually have a lot of free time in evenings, since I like to get home from work and just chill and do ****. But I would go online, go on boards, and chat, or respond to people's queries. not just this one, but others too.

I think in general, popular culture tells us that just chilling at home and doing **** all day is good, but I don't agree. If done consistently, it leads to boredom, even depression.

 

[Packers2010]

yeah. i do need to get out there. hard when i live in a small town. though the local pub has a gym. so i am gunna join and go. once i get settled. you know a house of my own and a car. will be good and a job.

 

[runner83]

What the hell is faping?

You know you need to get out and actually do something, so why come on here for advice?

For me, in the past, the computer was a huge time waster. Keep it turned off, and don't give into the temptation of turning it on.

Work out what factors, objects or habits are contributing to your wasting of time (Sosuave.net??) and eliminate them from your life, replace them with others which keep you active.

 

[Packers2010]

this is good. i have started to learn to type. and i found some exercises i can do at home. going to try some out later witch will be good

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Go the Gym.
Re-enroll in school.
Do community service.
Get a job.