It's very simple. Become more physically attractive.
Here are the most important criteria:
I. Physical Appearance
1. your face: your hair, hairstyle, unblemished skin tone, facial symmetry and shape, etc. This is the no. 1 criterion for physical attractiveness. Do what you can to maximize your attractiveness in this most important area.
2. your body. be active and physically fit, but you don't go overboard and become a bodybuilder. Studies show the extremes are unattractive to women.
3. your wardrobe: make sure your clothes fit and are reasonably fashionable. You don't have to chase trends and absolutely should not if you don't know what you're doing. Too much to write about here, but it's a consideration and can be a noticeable "plus" but ONLY if you know what you're doing.
II. Job/Wealth/Status
1. yes, your profession and the university or college you attended can both be a big plus.
2. you should have enough money not to worry about it when planning reasonably priced dates.
3. No, you don't need to be rich and no, you don't have to pay for everything, especially if she is working, even if only part time.
4. however, be passionate about pursuing your goals, as long as they are healthy for you and for others and allow for personal growth. Identify your strengths and cultivate them.
III. Lifestyle
1. develop healthy activities and hobbies. Do what you enjoy, especially if you can share this activity with others: hiking, beach sports, just about any outdoors are great.
2. keep a calendar. You should always have a list of shows, concerts, happy hours, parties and other events you are attending at least once a week, preferably more. Check facebook, instagram, twitter, professional and alumni organizations for event listings.
3. avoid excessive alcohol consumption and stay away from drugs. These are all completely unnecessary. Don't bow to peer pressure.
IV Health
1. this correlates closely with appearance. Indulgence in food, drinking or drugs is unhealthy.
2. get out of the house. Avoid addiction to social media, and excess time on the computer during off business hours.
3. cultivate friends. True friends, not the list of random people on your facebook account. This means face to face time.
4. stay in touch with family. Even if you hate them or vice versa, do your best to be reasonable and polite when you must spend time together.
V. Outlook
1. strive to view the world objectively. This can be tough since this is the age of entitlement and narcissism. Truth is your ally, sometimes your only ally.
2. have honor. If you **** up, acknowledge it. If they accept your apology, great. If not, then move on.
3. Be generous to everyone, but create strict but reasonable standards with people who **** up repeatedly. This goes for work and personal life.
4. have a spiritual life. This is a great source of community. Look for a community that has a tangible, positive effect on others.
VI. Work Hard.
1. view your goals regularly. Are you moving towards them or away from them?
2. are you healthier and stronger than you were a year ago?
3. do you have stronger and deeper friendships and relationships?
4. always strive to improve
Just a basic list to start.
Here are the most important criteria:
I. Physical Appearance
1. your face: your hair, hairstyle, unblemished skin tone, facial symmetry and shape, etc. This is the no. 1 criterion for physical attractiveness. Do what you can to maximize your attractiveness in this most important area.
2. your body. be active and physically fit, but you don't go overboard and become a bodybuilder. Studies show the extremes are unattractive to women.
3. your wardrobe: make sure your clothes fit and are reasonably fashionable. You don't have to chase trends and absolutely should not if you don't know what you're doing. Too much to write about here, but it's a consideration and can be a noticeable "plus" but ONLY if you know what you're doing.
II. Job/Wealth/Status
1. yes, your profession and the university or college you attended can both be a big plus.
2. you should have enough money not to worry about it when planning reasonably priced dates.
3. No, you don't need to be rich and no, you don't have to pay for everything, especially if she is working, even if only part time.
4. however, be passionate about pursuing your goals, as long as they are healthy for you and for others and allow for personal growth. Identify your strengths and cultivate them.
III. Lifestyle
1. develop healthy activities and hobbies. Do what you enjoy, especially if you can share this activity with others: hiking, beach sports, just about any outdoors are great.
2. keep a calendar. You should always have a list of shows, concerts, happy hours, parties and other events you are attending at least once a week, preferably more. Check facebook, instagram, twitter, professional and alumni organizations for event listings.
3. avoid excessive alcohol consumption and stay away from drugs. These are all completely unnecessary. Don't bow to peer pressure.
IV Health
1. this correlates closely with appearance. Indulgence in food, drinking or drugs is unhealthy.
2. get out of the house. Avoid addiction to social media, and excess time on the computer during off business hours.
3. cultivate friends. True friends, not the list of random people on your facebook account. This means face to face time.
4. stay in touch with family. Even if you hate them or vice versa, do your best to be reasonable and polite when you must spend time together.
V. Outlook
1. strive to view the world objectively. This can be tough since this is the age of entitlement and narcissism. Truth is your ally, sometimes your only ally.
2. have honor. If you **** up, acknowledge it. If they accept your apology, great. If not, then move on.
3. Be generous to everyone, but create strict but reasonable standards with people who **** up repeatedly. This goes for work and personal life.
4. have a spiritual life. This is a great source of community. Look for a community that has a tangible, positive effect on others.
VI. Work Hard.
1. view your goals regularly. Are you moving towards them or away from them?
2. are you healthier and stronger than you were a year ago?
3. do you have stronger and deeper friendships and relationships?
4. always strive to improve
Just a basic list to start.
