"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

How do i become less ****y and arrogant and become more confident?

Thread starter Jokerlsk
Start date Jul 4, 2009

Jokerlsk

Master Don Juan

Jul 6, 2009

I like the leadership role, and I like them in general. They aren't losers or anything, and they're nice people so why shouldn't I hang out with them?

I have a lot of other friends. I'm not restricted to just them. I don't know why you think I am, but whatever floats your boat. I'm not lying about it at all.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.