How Do I be less in my head???

[CapedCrusader08]

Less "self concious" so to say? Cause that's been a big problem for me. It makes me feel like I am not the person I want to be,and disables me in feeling good about myself. Plus, I feel this great sense of lost time and loneliness.

 

[DonJuan11]

Dude, sorry to say but you are losing your effectiveness by starting all these threads and playing the pity card.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

I try not to do that ok, but honestly,it's how I really feel. Like I have to make sure I don't go around spilling this onto people. I mean,yeah,it's like I need attention brought to my own dillemma. Like I need to in order to try and find a solution. How do I stop doing that?

 

[Warrior74]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=152485

 

[CapedCrusader08]

Thank You. Gee,alot of that yeah,hit's home. The somewhat negative,guarded thing, I do that alot,sometimes obvious,sometimes not so much.

"Your life is your responsiblity...you have to take charge of it, if your not happy with something you have to fix it. No one else will. But that's what makes you feel good about yourself. Knowing that you are working towards what you want, and accomplishing your goals." That right there,that's what's screwing with my head,and the whole true dominant masculinity thing. But that's another issue.