“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I made a very long post several days ago about an SA date I went on that was very boring. She ended saying I was too quiet for her to be attracted to.

How do I do better than that? Honestly, I spend a good portion of my day in psychotic rage, so I don't think "shy" is the whole story.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So per your words you spend your days in psychotic rage. Don't you think that just might be an indication you need professional intervention to live your life in a better way? But then why do the collective we attempt to give you advice as you are surly the smartest, richest person on the forum. Now it is your turn to post a child like response regarding how worthless this observation may be. But before you do, take a long hard look at your posting history and the pathos you display in misogynistic rants about the worth of women, material wealth, your physical appearance, and a litany of other issues. Honestly, doesn't that give you an indication of your mental well being? Until you have the courage to do a true self inventory of what is causing your behavior, and the response it elicits from others, I fear you are doomed to live a conflicted life that will eventually destroy you. Sad in so many ways. Good luck.
 

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I made a very long post several days ago about an SA date I went on that was very boring. She ended saying I was too quiet for her to be attracted to.

How do I do better than that? Honestly, I spend a good portion of my day in psychotic rage, so I don't think "shy" is the whole story.
You can't be the perfect man for all women. No one can.

Certain women r attracted to quiet men.

She'll find you. Don't worry. Life is good.

On a side note; practice being socially acceptable by mixing with groups of people. Try joining a club.
 
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You can't be the perfect man for all women. No one can.

Certain women r attracted to quiet men.

She'll find you. Don't worry. Life is good.

On a side note; practice being socially acceptable by mixing with groups of people. Try joining a club.
I should have complimented her more and touched her. I really hate the idea of "routines," but are there any good kino routines for dinner dates?
 

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I was too quiet for her to be attracted to.
this is bullsh1t
never ever once in 50 years has a woman "told" me her state of attractiveness to me on a date
wtf, did you ACTUALLY ask her "why are you not attracted to me?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this is bullsh1t
never ever once in 50 years has a woman "told" me her state of attractiveness to me on a date
wtf, did you ACTUALLY ask her "why are you not attracted to me?"
I asked her if she wanted to follow me back to my place.

She said I was too quiet and she wouldn't be into it.

PS: you're very close to getting blocked by me. I have no fvcking clue who you are.
 

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I should have complimented her more and touched her. I really hate the idea of "routines," but are there any good kino routines for dinner dates?
Google kino escalation. Several good articles to lay it out on the line.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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