"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do I avoid becoming Mr. Rebound??

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bignick79

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Long time, no see. Anyway, here's the situation. I went to school with this girl who is killer hot! She had a boyfriend back in college so nothing ever really happened between us, but there was always lots of touching and flirting! She invited me to her birthday party, which included plenty of drinks!! But turns out Mr. Boyfriend has been kicked to the curb! =) So we spent a good part of the night, flirting, dancing and, as the kids call it, Freakin' There was always a lot of eye contact and just a strong attraction between us, but i dont wanna be Mr. Rebound? I got in touch with her 3 days later and we both agreed, we had a blast. How should I proceed with this one guys?? Give her space and some time, or go after it??

Big Nick
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tits is right.

My last girlfriend and I got together RIGHT after we both broke up with our respective LTRs. We dated for two years and had a great time. Rebound is BS, you either like each other or you don't.

Think about it this way... If "rebound" does exist, and you get some pvssy off this chick then she gets all distant and embarrassed because you're mr. rebound, i think you were lucky to get that sex. Right? I think the rebound terminology is ******** for "I had sex with someone I really didn't want to". So hit it, enjoy it, if something pans out, rinse and repeat.

Chris
 
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