"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bignick79

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Long time, no see. Anyway, here's the situation. I went to school with this girl who is killer hot! She had a boyfriend back in college so nothing ever really happened between us, but there was always lots of touching and flirting! She invited me to her birthday party, which included plenty of drinks!! But turns out Mr. Boyfriend has been kicked to the curb! =) So we spent a good part of the night, flirting, dancing and, as the kids call it, Freakin' There was always a lot of eye contact and just a strong attraction between us, but i dont wanna be Mr. Rebound? I got in touch with her 3 days later and we both agreed, we had a blast. How should I proceed with this one guys?? Give her space and some time, or go after it??

Big Nick
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tits is right.

My last girlfriend and I got together RIGHT after we both broke up with our respective LTRs. We dated for two years and had a great time. Rebound is BS, you either like each other or you don't.

Think about it this way... If "rebound" does exist, and you get some pvssy off this chick then she gets all distant and embarrassed because you're mr. rebound, i think you were lucky to get that sex. Right? I think the rebound terminology is ******** for "I had sex with someone I really didn't want to". So hit it, enjoy it, if something pans out, rinse and repeat.

Chris
 
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