"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do i ask her out? Or should i move on?

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chris martin

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Okay so last Thursday nite i was out with a group of friends in this bar we were all partying hard when i see my cousin with a group of girls i know from previous occasions.

So I go over start the general spark of conversation up next minute you know i am kissing this real hot lookin chick.

Happy days so i proceed to step 2 i get's her number and we decide to hook up some time all good...

But the inexperienced me when it comes to single girls i starts txtin her the very next day not cool. So she responds somethin like she has the cold and doesnt know about a date now or even in the future.

Now as i know i am definatly not a clingy one but hav known this girl for sometime b4 thursday i may have given her that idea.

She knows i c lots of girls and possibly thinks something of me as a slut as she has found out i have 2 girls on the go at the moment.

I would like a date with this girl how long should i leave it b4 askin her again or if so should i?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey great idea i will definatly keep this in mind about the txt's!

It's good to hear some true advice i got it on with this girl last Thursday so i will txt her tonite after 8 and scale her interest from there.
 
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