"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how do i ask a woman out while she's on a cell phone?

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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hello, i've been reading you guys advices lately and really motivated my self- esteem. so first i like to thank you guys.

well, there are a lot of hotties in my college. Also, a lot of people usually talk on their cell phones in public. I feel like a dumb-ass if i disturbed them to asked them out. But i don't want to wait since i have my own busy things to do. Besides, waiting for a girl feel like a needy person.

Any DJ suggestion guys? In fact, what do u think David Deangelo would do if he was me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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quest

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if your very good looking, write on a peice of paper,

<phone number>
call me, Rookie of the Year.

do that to 10 girls, you'd probably get 2 or 3 calls i reckon.

otherwise, wait for them and build some rapport, and number close.
 

Microphone Fiend

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I'd reccomend waiting. I kno disciple had a post where he started talking to a gurl on a phone and it went well, but iunno. when they get off the phone u cud have a funny opener. Something to make them laugh and get yourself in.

Damn gurl you must be rich. On the cell phone durin peak hours! GODAmN!

Tell your mother i said Hi

Was that your boyfriend. (if yes) Tell him i said hi


Tell her you're gonna buy a phone and you want one like hers, ask her wut kind she has


(If the phones old/ugly ) Nice brick. When the phone company do a trade in you think they'll give it to a muesum?
 

Tha Realnezz

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I would never,ever do that.
 
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