For the past several days of school I have noticed a girl in the lunch line, I am beginning to feel attraction for her. Most of the time she is with her friend but I have seen her alone a few times. Any suggestion as to how to break the ice please?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do I approach?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LuckyDevil6
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Go up to her.. Hello, my name is X.. nice to meet you (her name).... can you believe some of the stuff they serve here?
Anything actually is fine, as long as you just stay confident, and in the end ask for the #
Anything actually is fine, as long as you just stay confident, and in the end ask for the #
Michael Chief
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1. Make definite eye contact
2. Walk over and ask for her name
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2. Walk over and ask for her name
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