For the past several days of school I have noticed a girl in the lunch line, I am beginning to feel attraction for her. Most of the time she is with her friend but I have seen her alone a few times. Any suggestion as to how to break the ice please?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do I approach?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
LuckyDevil6
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Go up to her.. Hello, my name is X.. nice to meet you (her name).... can you believe some of the stuff they serve here?
Anything actually is fine, as long as you just stay confident, and in the end ask for the #
Anything actually is fine, as long as you just stay confident, and in the end ask for the #
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1. Make definite eye contact
2. Walk over and ask for her name
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2. Walk over and ask for her name
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