"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do I approach this situation on twitter?

bkwegoharder

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Let me start this off by saying i'm in the 11th grade. I have never had a girlfriend and I never kissed a girl. Despite that I'm not totally socially inept, I dress nice and in terms of appearance I don't look like a virgin. When I tell people I am, they are surprised as hell and most people think I'm lying. I've only gotten the numbers of a handful of girls and I've been wanting to change that.

So I was in Popeyes to get some chicken with 2 of my boys, and there was a group of 6 girls at a table, and they called me over and they were saying that one of the girls was blowing kisses at me and they told me to catch it and do something with it. So I did the corny **** where you catch it and plant it on your lips, they all did the thing like "AAAHHH" when you see something cute. My friends laughed at me later for that though. So I started talking to one of the girls. I was mad nervous thouh. Plus it was hot outside so I was sweaty as hell. One of the girls said I had a nice shirt on. I can't remember exactly which said that though.

So the 5 college girls told me to talk to the high school girl instead. See the problem is that I was mad nervous I'm not sure if I engaged the girl enough. For one, they were telling me to whisper in her ear. Now I don't know how to do that. I have no idea what to say in that situation. so I just didn't do it. Plus I didn't really know if the girl would be okay with it either since it was just her friends telling me to do it. Now i'm not sure if that makes me look weak or afraid of girls i'm not sure.

So after talking a bit, I eventually tried to get her number. She seemed just a little reluctant to give me the number. Now I really didn't want to be one of those annoying guys who presses up on a girl for her number, and then the girl has to give a fake number or something to make the guy go away. You know what I'm talking about. But I really didn't know how to go about backing away from the situation either. I don't get into these situations a lot so I didn't know what to do. She started to give me the number though, then when she was in the middle of giver her number, one of her friends interrupted her and asked if I had a twitter so me and the high school girl could talk on twitter. And I said I did have twitter. I was mad because I was so close to getting the number. Twitter complicates ****, and makes stuff harder. Plus I don't go on twitter a lot. Oh well. So her friend took out a piece of paper and gave it to the high school girl to write her twitter on. She wrote her twitter, and then one of the college girls told her to kiss the paper. To my surprise she actually did it, I could see the lip gloss marks on it right now.


So I went back to my friends and started eating my food and chiillin. I left the paper on the table though. I didn't put it away or do anything to it. I just left it there like it didn't matter. So later, when they started to leave, the high school girl came up to me and took the paper, she told me that if I didn't contact on twitter she would take it. I said I would. So she gave it back.

So the next day I tried to follow her on twitter, but you know how everyone has that verification thing on twitter where you request to follow them and they approve you. So I saw that she approved me today. But she isn't following me. I'm not sure if you can contact people who aren't following you. This is another reason why I don't like twitter. I can't operate it too well. I'm also wondering if she is really interested. She's also one of those girls who has hundreds of followers and is following hundreds of people. I only have 28 followers and 50 people I'm following so this might give off the wrong idea that I'm a lame that doesn't have friends or something.

So

On one hand

She gave me her twitter
She kissed the paper with the twitter on it
She threatened to take the paper with the twitter name on it if I didn't contact her.
I was called over to the group, I wasn't the one who went up to them, they technically went up to me

But on the otherhand

She isn't following me back on twitter, if she was interested wouldn't she be following me too?
She was reluctant to give me her number and her twitter
She wasn't the one who originally called me over there, it was one of those college girls who did.

So is she interested or not? Should I even try or should I next her? Also, she is in the 10th grade, I'm in 11th. Would that seem weird? I just turned 17, and she is 15, but since she's going to 11th grade she is probably gonna turn 16 soon sometime this year.

Sorry if this is too long. I tried to give as much background info as possible though.
 

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You giving her your twitter + not getting her # = :down:

You should have said you didn't have a twitter and gotten her #. She's in control now. you're expecting her to do stuff that might not happen. Now you're going to be really anxious about it which completely plays into her favor.
 

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I know, i'm freaking mad at that. I should have said I don't have a twitter but I wasn't thinking on my feet. It's all good though.

I never gave her my twitter though. She gave me her twitter. So I could just direct message I guess. How should I go about it? Or should I just next her? Or is that nexting too fast?
 

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I would have never sent her a request to follow her...maybe once you talk to her you can say something like "hey, you never finished giving me your #" or something like that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do I approach this situation on twitter?
I didn't read the thread, but here's your answer: Don't approach any situation on twitter.
 

kingsam

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dude the college girls blocked you wiht the twitter thing (its just like "give me your email instead") but the girl didnt seem too excited to be giving her no. out anyway from the looks of it

send her a message going "hey XX, its bkwegoharder. you never gave me your #, what is it"

if she does give u it then, wait a bit and call her up to do some "date-meet up thing"

if she ignores you, well dont worry... its all about experience!
 
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This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. Flirtatious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush.
 
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