"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do i approach a big girl?: I dont know why but i like big girls better.

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Anyways iam singel and i just like big girls better then thin girls,but i dont know how to approach them..any tips?

P.S. dont try to be funny with me guys :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, it's a fvcking woman. The mental and emotional wiring of a woman is the same whether they're 100 or 300 pounds. Unbelievably, some of the larger women think they're the hottest pieces of ass walking around. Go read the DJ bible.

I used fatties for practicing my DJ techniques and moved up (or should I say down) the scale.
 

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Look at the top of the page of this post. In the upper left hand corner it says "New here? We suggest checking out the DJ Bible before posting" and click on the words "The DJ Bible"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok i was want to know is do Natural pheromenes worked? if so where can i buy some..lol hee-heee
 

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Ok lol lol anyways there hard to find anyways. But i do like how good looking girls smells dont you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok let me you somthing ok. Frist iam a type of guy that does not get sex or gfs..sometimes if the right female comes along that i go for it. But i hate sitting her and thinking of when she will come in my life. What is it that iam doing wrong. If i wanted a girl to come to my life right now what should i do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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carry cookies in one pocket, and sausages in the other packet..

knight, if u are decent looking, you'll have no problem picking up fat chicks..
i was picking up fat chicks regularly before i had read any material from the bible, or even began reading this site.

just get your ass out somewhere where the fatties hang, have fun, talk to them. bang.

i find clubs the best, and theres plenty of fatties there.
 

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Read, then re-read. Then come back and talk on the forum. You also might want to look at the psychological aspects of why you're attracted to larger women... some may argue that they are less threatening than beautiful ones, thus while you don't actually desire a fat girl, you can't see yourself as having the guts or know-how to land the beauty queen, so you 'decide' that fat girls are what do it for you.
 
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