"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do i act and change my personality

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when im around people, im always the quiet guy, so i go out and try not to be the quiet guy, by being outgoing, sometimes it feels like i got my game on doing everything right, but most of the time i act weird.

i want to know how to act around people, especially girls to get them interested, and give them a good time, so they actually want to hang out with me again, and not call me up as a last resort cause they got nobody else fun to hang out with.

it's hard to describe, it's just that if i try to be outgoing, i just act weird, but that's just how i am when im outgoing, that's why i prefer to stay quiet and not take risks.

how can i develop my personality to be a funny, outgoing person that knows how to have a good time, and still have backbone and take risks getting sexual when it comes to girls.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kevin1198 said:
already read it 3 times, friend
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He's right though. Your question is pretty basic...well as "basic" as changing your whole persona can be.

You need confidence. How do you change your personality? You have to find hobbies and passions that have nothing to do with women. I was the quiet one of my group too...then I found things that made me happy that didn't rely on their approval. Once I had that, my happiness with myself blended into my social life. I was telling more jokes, smiling more, laughing louder. And with that, came the women.

So that's my advice, and basically what the DJ Bible tells you. Become a complete man. Not a woman-chaser. Not a meat-head. A guy who knows his place in the world, and isn't afraid of expressing it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Iceberg said:
He's right though. Your question is pretty basic...well as "basic" as changing your whole persona can be.

You need confidence. How do you change your personality? You have to find hobbies and passions that have nothing to do with women. I was the quiet one of my group too...then I found things that made me happy that didn't rely on their approval. Once I had that, my happiness with myself blended into my social life. I was telling more jokes, smiling more, laughing louder. And with that, came the women.

So that's my advice, and basically what the DJ Bible tells you. Become a complete man. Not a woman-chaser. Not a meat-head. A guy who knows his place in the world, and isn't afraid of expressing it.
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thanks for the post Iceberg, once i get more money, ill practice for motocross, and take up engine building as hobbies.
then work on confidence and hopefully carry that into my personality
 
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