“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do guys get girls to tag them in Instagram posts?

skipfontaine22

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Howdy

I know some dude who has become locally very well known -- very rapidly.
Hes not good looking or wealthy, but somehow he must do something remarkable.

One thing i've noticed is that he follows/is followed by every hot girl in town.

I think a lot of it is when they repost photos that he has tagged them in.
Is this how it works?

Sorry if this is a dumb question -- but its fascinating how social media can really give people social proof
It would be cool if there was a good course on this
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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For what is worth it, this is what worked for me in IG:

*Follow cool people in your social circle, but get rid of people who wouldn’t follow you back. do not stress about the number of followers

*You want a number of followers as close as the number of followed

* For posts: Cool international pictures alone and with male friends preferably. Slide an occasional picture with a female friend. Slide Cute family pictures too.

*For stories: Anything cool in your daily life. No need to stress about it. Just genuinely cool stuff, family stuff, or even enigmatic stuff. Highlight other people achievements, specially close friends.

*For DMs: leave bangable girls hanging until you post an story. Others you can respond to whenever.


*Short, Enigmatic bio… Bio picture of your face, not body… although I made the IG work without a bio picture.. so there is that

*Actively ask people for their Ig handle, men and women… they’re usually pretty relaxed about it. Now, do not DM a new folllower immediately. Wait until you post some cool stories to see if they react to it. If they do, it is a good sign. If they don’t, and they saw them… just wait a few more stories. Someone watching your stories religiously is the best next thing I guess. Then calibrate if you want to DM or not.

*What to DM? I Liked to wait until they reacted to my stories and then follow up with something funny and short. From there depending on the response I would then try to invite the girl to some type of meet up, whether one-to-one or with a bunch of my friends.

*Once you get good at it, I would recommend stopping the use of it. Ideally you got a few girls that you banged and you can juggle those over text or WhatsApp. Ultimately, IG is a time sink and it can also work against you if you start posting stuff with the same girl , meaning LTR. However, once you have a good IG foundation you can rinse and repeat the same steps.

*Mind that my social circle age bracket is 25ish-30ish, in case somebody wonders.
 

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For what is worth it, this is what worked for me in IG:

*Follow cool people in your social circle, but get rid of people who wouldn’t follow you back. do not stress about the number of followers

*You want a number of followers as close as the number of followed

* For posts: Cool international pictures alone and with male friends preferably. Slide an occasional picture with a female friend. Slide Cute family pictures too.

*For stories: Anything cool in your daily life. No need to stress about it. Just genuinely cool stuff, family stuff, or even enigmatic stuff. Highlight other people achievements, specially close friends.

*For DMs: leave bangable girls hanging until you post an story. Others you can respond to whenever.


*Short, Enigmatic bio… Bio picture of your face, not body… although I made the IG work without a bio picture.. so there is that

*Actively ask people for their Ig handle, men and women… they’re usually pretty relaxed about it. Now, do not DM a new folllower immediately. Wait until you post some cool stories to see if they react to it. If they do, it is a good sign. If they don’t, and they saw them… just wait a few more stories. Someone watching your stories religiously is the best next thing I guess. Then calibrate if you want to DM or not.

*What to DM? I Liked to wait until they reacted to my stories and then follow up with something funny and short. From there depending on the response I would then try to invite the girl to some type of meet up, whether one-to-one or with a bunch of my friends.

*Once you get good at it, I would recommend stopping the use of it. Ideally you got a few girls that you banged and you can juggle those over text or WhatsApp. Ultimately, IG is a time sink and it can also work against you if you start posting stuff with the same girl , meaning LTR. However, once you have a good IG foundation you can rinse and repeat the same steps.

*Mind that my social circle age bracket is 25ish-30ish, in case somebody wonders.
Thanks.
But this dude I know -- he just is partrying with babes all the time.
He will take photos with them, tag them, and then they will tag him back and repost his photo, therefore show him to their hot friends.

Is this what is going on?

I guess I could just ask him but I don't really want him to know that I am curious about his strategy.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Thanks.
But this dude I know -- he just is partrying with babes all the time.
He will take photos with them, tag them, and then they will tag him back and repost his photo, therefore show him to their hot friends.

Is this what is going on?

I guess I could just ask him but I don't really want him to know that I am curious about his strategy.
He’s a good time… that is what’s going on
 

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Thanks.
But this dude I know -- he just is partrying with babes all the time.
He will take photos with them, tag them, and then they will tag him back and repost his photo, therefore show him to their hot friends.

Is this what is going on?

I guess I could just ask him but I don't really want him to know that I am curious about his strategy.
Is he a Chad?
 

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Have to have piped the woman previously or be the kind of guy she wants to ****. If you fulfill this criteria, you'll get all the mentions/tags.

Or be her drug supplier from what you described lol
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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instagram stories are a rapport-building marvel. don't be scared to tap the like button. too few people respond to and "like" stories. it's an engagement masterpiece
 

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You just answered your question lol
I don't know,. I mean, I have been around drugs for a long time. Not a TON around cocaine (I dont do it), but, I don't know its its the amazing asset that some non-cocaine guys think it is.

But maybe I am wrong.
 
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Thanks.
But this dude I know -- he just is partrying with babes all the time.
He will take photos with them, tag them, and then they will tag him back and repost his photo, therefore show him to their hot friends.

Is this what is going on?

I guess I could just ask him but I don't really want him to know that I am curious about his strategy.
I knew a guy that was like this. Always hanging out with hot girls. He never had sehx with any of them, and I think he was a closet gay or didn't like sehx. He was very good at connecting with people and always partied but would look after and take care of these girls.

The other guy I knew had lots of money and hosted lots of parties.

There's a guy that goes to this bar I frequent and always has different hot women. Dude has plenty of money. Recently he introduced me to a group of Colombian females that gave me a weird vibe. it dawned on me that he probably is a drug dealer and these girls work for him.
 
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