"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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How do guys feel about girls not having a car?

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betterthandead

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I dated a girl once who had no car and had a tree-hugger mentality which soon followed up by her feminist ways which followed by me dumping this broad soon after. At first I didn't mind doing the driving but I had to plan where to go on the basis of me having to go over there and then moving on to another area.

Whilst with another girl in the past I dated who did have a car, there was less of that plus the convenience of getting her to come over to my place. After dating a girl like the above, I made a general decision on not to date any girl that did not have a car.

What do you guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Oh my god I dealt with a year of the no car sh!t. Then when she got a car she dumped me. Figures. Wow man she was 19 and 20 when I dated her wtf...

had to plan my day based on when I would be in the area. Over an hour of my day were spent driving her to and from her house. Pain in the ass. Avoid at all costs.
 
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Yeah, I'd say avoid it. If you get involved with them they'll try to use you as a personal taxi service.
 
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When a girl doesn't own a car, I think that's hot.

Then again, I don't own a car. Even if I did, I would tell her to take public transportation if I ever didn't want to drive her.

God I love tree-huggers, they're so hot.
 
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