how do find out if she's available ?

[KnightRyder]

There is this jewish girl cashier at the local mall.


I see her often because I go late at night and she is always ( after work ) hanging out with this is other guy.

I don't know if that is her boyfriend or her brother. Will jewish women date non jewish guys ?


Anyway, what would be a good way to find out if that is her boyfriend or just her brother ? Keep in mind, I haven't talk to her ever.

If I said "are you single/taken ?" or maybe I should go with "Do you have a boyfriend ?" that sounds like I'm asking her out.
because I goto the mall a lot and it would be awkward if she said , "no" as if I was offering her a date.

What should I say to her ?

 

[Blackstar]

damn son, u need help on that??! how about talk to her and find out... this is sad

 

[Paintballguy]

Just ask for her number, dont worry if she has a bf or not.

 

[Blackstar]

Originally posted by Paintballguy
Just ask for her number, dont worry if she has a bf or not.

that too

 

[jason86]

You : 'Your bf looks gay'
Her : 'That aint my bf'

Thats all i can think of lol

 

[KnightRyder]

The reason I ask, if because I think I really have a shot with this women, but If I said something outright and upfront that might ruin something....

 

[skinnydart]

Just go up and start to chat/flirt with her a little bit. Believe me, by doing that, you'll be able to tell if that "other guy" is her bf by the way he responds.

 

[KnightRyder]

Good point, Skinny. What if I go up to her during her work and flirt with her , will that still work..

 

[DonJuanQuixote]

Haha..easiest trick in da book..

strike up a convo, build rapport, and then fire it..."Are you single??"


always works.

 

[ScrewIt]

i cant really say, but i do have some insight in this area.

my current employer is jewish and i had a couple jewish co-workers in the past with whom i'd chat with once in awhile.

we did get into the part about jewish families and traditions...

But here are some things i've learned:
some (men and women) would date out of their religion, but it depends on how religious they actually are.

Jewish women in particular, if they would choose a non-jewish partner adn bring him home. IF her parents are highly religious, they would probably reject him and force her to give him up. so yea...most likely rejection by the parents. i might say jewish women are more open minded to interracial dating compared to jewish men...but in the end it all boils down to religion/tradition.

My psych teacher told me once about 2 patients he had. this non jewish guy married a jewish woman, didnt tell her parents until after they got married. they loved each other but were forced to divorce due to her parents. Even after the divorce they still loved each other.

well i'd say go for it, you never know until you try right?

 

[jakeyboy]

ill put it this way, if she has a bf, theres a higher chance of her not giving you her number. so ask her and find out!

 

[KnightRyder]

What if she gives me her number, ANd she has a boyfriend ? I do'nt wanna be played.

 

[Spanic]

Man, whatever happens, you'll survive! Go there, talk to her and ask her out if you sense something. Even if you get rejected, you'll feel much better and more confident than right now.

 

[hitmanchronicles]

Originally posted by KnightRyder
There is this jewish girl cashier at the local mall.


I see her often because I go late at night and she is always ( after work ) hanging out with this is other guy.

I don't know if that is her boyfriend or her brother. Will jewish women date non jewish guys ?


Anyway, what would be a good way to find out if that is her boyfriend or just her brother ? Keep in mind, I haven't talk to her ever.

What should I say to her ?

Easy, just observe her, like what shes wearing i.e clothing, jewelery or whatever. Then go up to her while shes working and pretend to buy something. Start a convo with her about that one or two items that you saw on her and tell her that her earings matches her eyes color or something. Then ask her if her boyfriend got that for her. If she say yes then you know she have a man if no then you can bring up that guy she hang out with and ask if that was her man. This way a) got the approaching part done b) building some kind of rapport with her c) if she have some kind of IL on you, #close that b!*ch!