How do each of you open cold approaches? Lets make an idea board that we can try?

[IamtheAlphamale]

I started doing approaches. Mainly I goto the mall and approach girls walking the other way. This is most convenient for me because I find thats where I see most girls.. when we are walking by eachother. But I am starting to get into the habbit of only approaching girls like this when I am there. I don't want mall staff, that I don't know, to realize what I am doing. But I started thinking as long as I rarely do the same store over and over I should be alright.

I've tried a few things. At first I had some success with the line.. "Do I have a milk mustache?" Then saying I had one because I had a protien shake earlier. The first two times I used this it had pretty good success, better than anything else I have done actually.

I also tried just walking up and saying hi. I've tried stuff like "You have a hole in your jeans." If they are wearing that old ripped jeans style. I just think obvious things are kind of funny. A lot of girls are wearing that now. It works well actually.

I'm finding that I'm getting more and more relaxed in the walk up approach. Although yesterday I approached like 8 girls like that and only the last two gave me any time. Thats about the worst I've done.

Anyways I hope you guys post so that we can give eachother ideas for openers. I also realize that its mostly just gradually relaxing into the role, because thats how confidence works right? If to be good at approaching is to make it a habbit then I guess we should get started eh?

 

[stuntrider]

you are absolutely right. Here is the thing some guys stop approaches after they get shut down. lets be honest how many approaches do you think a beautiful girl gets?

One approach that i have been pretty successful at is if i see a beautiful girl pass by i will keep looking at her eyes till she looks back at me, i give them a friendly smile. If i am in the mall I change my way and go other way around where i pop right in front of her, i would keep on walking in front of her and stop look back at her and i would say " are you stalking me" with a friendly tone. They usually smile or say something funny back or sometimes they would smile and walk away.

I have no problem getting a girls number or their email, but I do have a problem getting them out for a date or even to have a quick coffee. I give them 3 strikes and if they keep on bringing excuses i would move on and call another one.

I have a friend who is a natural. i know him since high school, i pretty much grew up with the guy. He used to be horrible with girls, He even lost his virginity when he was 20. Now he astonishes me when ever i am hanging with this guy. Every time he is in a club, like 75% of times he walks out of club just a little after being in club with a girl. And an hour later i would see him come back in with the same girl to the club. He would leave the same girl and move on to the next one but this time he would have her sat in a bar and make out or be hidden some where in a corner.

I really wanted to know what he does when he walks out and what does he actually say to the girl that wants to go out of club with him.

This is what he does and i have never seen him dancing alone in a club on his own. " He picks his target by walking around the club and choosing which girl is a good dancer or we might call it a good booty shaker, then approaches her from side and whispers in her ear, WOULD U LIKE TO DANCE while he has his right hand on her lower back. Most of times they say yes but some times like everybody else he gets rejected. When he does get rejected he doesn't just walk away, he looks at her and and tells her that shes a lesbian. if shes with a friend he would automatically move on to her friend and while if he is dancing with her friend he stares at her and starts to make out with her friend. ANIWAYZ i can go on and write a whole story about this guy but i just wanted to point him out and if you guys would like to get together where we hit a pub or club and pick up girls im down for that.
PS. he takes his target to his car and usually have sex or oral sex.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

thats interesting that you guys approach from the side. I think I've heard something about that before actually.