"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How difficult is it to get replies from a sugar daddy websites?

Stephen89

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I'm joining some sugar daddy websites. I'll verify myself.

I know writing 'hi' does not work 'hi, how are you' will not work.

-short and snappy
-something about her profile
-long message
-research on this
-use mystery method openers

How likely is it I'll get replies back to messages sent since these females are looking for a sugar daddy?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SW15

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Your reply rate will be higher on a sugar daddy website than on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble. There are stories of men trying to interact with the exact same woman on a swipe app or a sugar daddy platform. The woman ignores the man on the swipe app but does respond on the sugar daddy platform.

Tinder/Hinge/Bumble are sausage fests. Men are cheap and disposable on swipe apps. On sugar daddy platforms, men are valued and not treated as disposable.

You still need to have messages that are compelling to her on a sugar daddy website, but the threshold for keeping her attention is much lower than what you'd encounter on a swipe app.
 

Stephen89

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Your reply rate will be higher on a sugar daddy website than on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble. There are stories of men trying to interact with the exact same woman on a swipe app or a sugar daddy platform. The woman ignores the man on the swipe app but does respond on the sugar daddy platform.

Tinder/Hinge/Bumble are sausage fests. Men are cheap and disposable on swipe apps. On sugar daddy platforms, men are valued and not treated as disposable.

You still need to have messages that are compelling to her on a sugar daddy website, but the threshold for keeping her attention is much lower than what you'd encounter on a swipe app.
Thanks man.

What is the ideal first message I could write? On normal dating apps I've researched so many first messages to write, so may like banter, others long.

Would you give an example of an ideal first message?
 

GioWolf

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The same way you would open up any regular prostit*te. They are a lot more responsive when they know something is in it for them. My advice would be to not do it. It’s really depressing to see the same girls who ignore you treat you like a king for money. Can I ask you what your end game is? What are you trying to get out of this? Sugaring is just prostit*tion with extra steps. The fact that you’re asking how to open a hooker has me worried you’re going to get milked out of a lot of cash.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hello dear friend.

Generally, a woman looking to be supported by another man, the first thing she looks for is her lifestyle, so her profile will have to be in that direction. Try to take pictures in nice and cool places, wear good clothes, do the minimum, you will already have a better answer! You need to send a message through your profile that you have some condition to prove it
 

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The same way you would open up any regular prostit*te. They are a lot more responsive when they know something is in it for them. My advice would be to not do it. It’s really depressing to see the same girls who ignore you treat you like a king for money. Can I ask you what your end game is? What are you trying to get out of this? Sugaring is just prostit*tion with extra steps. The fact that you’re asking how to open a hooker has me worried you’re going to get milked out of a lot of cash.
It's OVER for SugarDaddyCels!
 

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Sigh.. So many choices for daddy to choose from and nothing worth spoiling....What special thing do you do for your daddy little one???
 

Stephen89

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I'll cancel being a sugar daddy.

I did have women message me and put me on their favourites.

It's not for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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