“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How did your seduction skills impact your "everyday" life?

jhonny9546

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Do you think that your being highly skilled and experienced in the seduction field, or just by having many.experiences with women, gave you tools to manage healthy long term relationships with people and women in general, or gave you any other good thing for your life which you're proud of?
 

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On all counts.

First, and most obviously, my relationships with women both short and long term. On the short term, I was able to not waste my time while being honest with them about what my intentions were. Often, they would hope for more or try to get me to commit to more and yes, in moments of weakness might have lead them on to believe there was more, but ultimately would go back to telling them that I couldn't be in a relationship with them exclusively.

The things I learned with these short term 'situationships', 'flings', "ONS' or whatever you like, were invaluable to understanding women's behavior that I never would have learned the 'korrect' way (LTR/Dryspell after LTR/Dryspell). I also learned three important things. 1.) How to balance what I need and desire for myself and what I'm willing and not willing to compromise on and to set/enforce boundaries. 2.) The difference in how women treat you before and after you have sex with them. There IS a difference. 3.) How differently a woman treats you after you demonstrate any milestone of commitment. "We're exclusive", cohabitation or marriage. Also a difference. Anyone who denies/ignores this is a fool or will soon be made one.

People in general? Oh man, it improves greatly. You no longer waste so much time trying to "figure it all out" due to good habits as well as developing both a positive and magnetic personality. The time/money you would have spent experimenting with wardrobe, style, venues, flirting with different classes and lifestyles of women, apps, education, etc is all better spent on things that further your own life and goals. If a woman is on board with how you do that and she sticks around, great! LTR! If you don't want one? GREAT! Keep a rolodex or black book. But you're no longer exhaustively maximizing your efforts for mediocre or subpar pu$$y.

You have more fun and enjoyment in activities, ideally with your LTR. My current lady (She's about to earn a ring!) has over 5k miles on the back of my bike in only 1.5 years, I've taught her how to play chess, shoot billiards and firearms (She responsibly carries!), and as a result others take notice of the healthy relationship and lifestyle. Based off of the things she says to others about me in public or how she presents herself makes me look even better to people who already held me in high esteem or people I never thought noticed one way or another see me differently too. Is it perfect? Hell no. There are times when I tell her "Hey, I want to be left alone." And what does she do? Doesn't start an argument.

Also professionally. If you aren't constantly vying for that 'missing piece that just isn't there' you'd be surprised just how much effort you'd been putting into trying to become a DJ at the cost of a lot of other things. You may find yourself out earning all of your peers, suddenly realizing no one is truly better or worse than you, you're just willing to do the things no one else wants to do. Too many want the quick fix or easy out. The sooner we realize that there isn't one the sooner we find ourselves in a place where our admirers or detractors think that we've found a quick fix or easy out.

I wish more people understood on the back end where hindsight is 20/20 that all of this "t0xic cr@p" is anything but. It's not about being someone who you're not, "faking it until you make it", or being a 'jerk' etc. It's all about learning and growing into becoming better.
 
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Do you think that your being highly skilled and experienced in the seduction field, or just by having many.experiences with women, gave you tools to manage healthy long term relationships with people and women in general, or gave you any other good thing for your life which you're proud of?
“Seduction” skills and knowledge has never enhanced my life. The only thing that has ever enhanced my life was self love.

The human ego is a bottomless pit. I can literally have women eve fvcking all day and still feel completely miserable.

And I can be completely invisible to women yet feel fulfilled because I did things that aligned with self love.

But here’s the “full circle” part. There is no difference between self love and seduction. The more value you give to yourself, the more seductive you are.

As above, so below. The world is your own mirror reflection.
 

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Hasn't really changed much other than making social interactions a bit easier especially opening people eg making phone calls or sales. There is the indirect benefit that sleeping around a bit will makes you stop pedastalizing women, but I think that's a phase every man should go through regardless.

Otherwise I think skills with women are mostly seperate and independent from other areas in life. I think it's a bit of cope for men to claim that skills with women translate into life success or that success in life would transfer to success with women (though there is some truth to the latter). That's why a man might be successful in business, financials, or fitness, but still be utterly clueless and incompetent with women, while a broke slob who lives out of his car could be fcking that same man's wife every week.
 
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It made me a great salesman (impervious to rejection) and moved me up in the ladder in business. At first it felt kind of weird and awkward trying to impulse men to committing to a $50k to $100k deal.

But at the end of the day, I realized all humans respond to the same attraction and rapport triggers.

Game is universal. You can either use it to laid or make a lot of money, or both.
 

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@jhonny9546 , It isn't just the women you have slept with that will show a difference in behavior, it will also be people in the same social circle. Provided she has talked about it with them. Women talk about this sort of stuff with each other more than we would think. It depends on whether the s3x was great or if it was terrible on how dynamics might change. If it wasn't great, oh well. Being 'good in bed' is something that can be learned. It also depends on what type of woman she is. More reserved, LTR worthy partners for example don't say much about it. A party girl on the other hand won't hesitate to say how great it was.

Women kind of know in other ways. It's interesting. If she's one of those party girls who talks about it, her entire group will act sort of giddy when you're around and will possibly even make obvious (once you're keen to it) attempts to steal you away. It's amusing. Some women treat you like a forbidden fruit. They will attach themselves to you, making you an obsession and won't breathe a word of it to any of her friends which can have the exact same effect due to their curiosity. "Wonder what he's got on her?"

Sometimes, she will almost seem shameful and may seem to want nothing more to do with you. Doesn't matter if it was 'good' or 'bad.' Maybe she was married or had another commitment? Who knows. But if she speaks about it her social circle can become very awkward toward you. Most of this stuff is easier to see in social circle dynamics.

Individual women with which you've no involvement in her social circle (other than what she says about you, let's hope its good if you're her LTR!) will still change somewhat after s3x. The funny thing is that even younger women seem to notice and get VERY flirty when they sense a guy 'knows what he's doing' when it comes to locking bodies and bumping uglies. I've had very young hot MARRIED women lip kiss me or rub their a$$ right on me in the same bar while her husband was there!

Overall, women in general treat you very differently if you have either slept with them or if they believe you're someone who very easily could do so with multiple women. How is this knowledge helpful? Eh, up to you to decide. Based off of what you're after. If you're after an LTR having one that obsesses over you and you're her 'forbidden' fruit is nice. You've just got to be careful as with all things in life. That third leg can become dangerously close to being a brain and that can get you into all sorts of situations.
 

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Ofcourse it does. When you come up and try to generate business you might have to seduce people in general, not just women.

On the other hand ; if you're a great seducer yiu might hear Micheal Jackson famous line in the back of your mind often:

Momma always told me, be careful what you do
Don't go around breaking young girls hearts ( ooh ooh)


korrect' way (LTR/Dryspell after LTR/Dryspell).
The definition of doing the same shyte while expecting different results. Aka insanity.

And putting the onus on the women in your life instead of looking in the mirror why oh why you're getting the same results.

After a while a man enters this territory where the illusion no longer exists; a relationship gotta be on HIS terms and if she wants to walk she is free to do so at any moment.

As soon as a man gives away his power he'll lose the ability to walk away and it will dramatically change the dynamics.

Imo a lot SHOULD feel like somewhat of a burden because being while single a man also had tons of fun.
 

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Short answer:

Absolutely... Almost EVERYONE prefers to be around someone who's engaging to be around/generally brings more levity into their lives than they do heartbreak
 
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