To the OP:
Why do you want to care again? Man, when I stopped caring, it felt SOOOO good and I haven't gone back since! I have little interest in other people besides myself and direct family. I only care if something terrible happens to other people, not because I can them "feel for them" or any of that bullsh1t, but rather so I can learn from their mistakes and stupid decisions.
In any case, I don't see why you want to care about what other people think. At my job I only care about what 1 person thinks: the boss. Co-workers? Yeah, F them. I smile and make nice, but in my mind I do whatever I gotta do to get the job done and get the boss on my side. Yes, it sounds brutal, yes it sounds cut throat, but life is like that and unless you are content being AVERAGE, aka FORGOTTEN WHEN YOU DIE LIKE YOU WERE NEVER EVEN HERE, then you need to grab your balls and tell all the losers in the world to move the fvck outta your way.
Convos must be had, but only when they serve a purpose. Your actions must have purpose. Without purpose you are a waste of time and space, kind of like a rock. A rock has no purpose. It just sits there and rolls with whatever nature brings. You must be grounded and move whatever way YOU choose, not whatever way nature aka society tries to move you. Focus on purpose. Ask yourself, "why am I doing this?" If there's no GOOD answer, slap yourself and move on.
As for vlf445, I agree with you, I don't know wtf Sharingan is talking about. This forum is first and foremost a SELF-IMPROVEMENT forum. It is not a GET WOMEN ONLY forum. That is an ASPECT of your life where you may want to improve, but mostly, its about growing to be a more mature, developed, and successful person.