"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How did YOU quit smoking?

Skel

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I am a heavy smoker. I want to get into the gym and run and stuff to get in shape but the biggest thing holding me back is that i smoke a lot. I also have a roomate that smokes as much as i do so i am also getting second hand smoke and third hand smoke from weed. I want to quit smoking cigarettes and weed)cigs being the tough one). I have smoked for like 15 years so I dont even remember what it is like not to have a cigarette.

I have tried the patch, nicoderm, cold turkey, etc. I CANT QUIT. I always break down and go into withdrawl(shakes, moody, etc). I just want to quit. Maybe you have a way that you quit that could help me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I dunno, I caught a real bad case of the flu. Ended up sick for almost two weeks, and I couldn't smoke if I wanted to, so that was an easy way to quit. So if you get sick, take advantage of it!

Chris
 

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Yeah, go to your hospital and ask for flu shots, except you want the "special kind." Actually, ask your doctor, he can get an inhibitor or some drug that will make you puke if you smoke, Although it would be funny if you'd puke all over the house because of the second hand smoke you get from your roommate.
 

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I quit smoking by using "Smoke Away" and doing 10 push-ups every time I thought about smoking. I think I did about 1000 push-ups the first day and could barely move the next (still ended up doing about the same amound that day too). By the time I stopped thinking about cigarettes I was in pretty good shape, got a membership to a gym after that.

Anyway, thats what worked for me. The idea is to replace smoking with something else.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm a professional bodybuilder and I smoked for several years. I quit smoking to better my career, cold turkey. Just give yourself a reason and do it, you need a reason though, and it has to be your own reason.
 

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"I quit smoking by using "Smoke Away" and doing 10 push-ups every time I thought about smoking. I think I did about 1000 push-ups the first day and could barely move the next (still ended up doing about the same amound that day too). By the time I stopped thinking about cigarettes I was in pretty good shape, got a membership to a gym after that.
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I just got smoke away for xmas. I thought it looked kinda funky but ill give it a try. Im not exactly sure what the pills are suppose to do but ill give it a shot./
 

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There is a new medicine out now called E-Cigars.
It's WONDERFUL in my opinion, I've tried lots of other methods and failed. I was able to quit with this pretty easily, but you also have to make the commitment to quit & stick with it. It took away my urge to smoke. It's not covered by insurance but to me it was well worth the cost. Good luck
 

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911amanda said:
There is a new medicine out now called E-Cigars.
It's WONDERFUL in my opinion, I've tried lots of other methods and failed. I was able to quit with this pretty easily, but you also have to make the commitment to quit & stick with it. It took away my urge to smoke. It's not covered by insurance but to me it was well worth the cost. Good luck
Spam
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Phat

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Smoking is so nasty. If i can go my whole 20 years of my life with out smoking so can you. I seen my dad go from 10 years of smoking to quiting in 1 day. My aunt stopped smoking 25 years ago and was diagnosed with lung cancer last year. I stopped hanging out with all my friends because all they do is fuucking smoke! I hate the smell and i hate how it makes your cloths smell like shiit!
 
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