"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Amo

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I'm a senior in high school this year, which means that I'm supposed to be in full-on college mode. But while everyone around me knows exactly want they want to be, I don't have even the slightest of clues. I don't even have a general sort of field I want to be in. I don't really have a "calling".

In fact, I'm interested by most things. I find the idea of a "calling" ridiculous. I prefer broad knowledge over deep knowledge. The quote which ends with "Specialization is for insects" speaks to me.

But this is not very application-friendly, let alone Ivy-friendly.

What do I do?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FairShake

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Life experience bro. Like anyone else, try a few things and figure out what works for you. Unless you have an all-encompassing passion this is what most people do.
 
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How well is the Bahrainian economy faring these days? If it sucks like ours you might not want to put so much money into a collegiate education, at least for the time being.
 
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Hustlaz Ambition

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Strangely enough I found my "calling" through the pickup community and reading the Book Of Pook. So try to push yourself out of your comfort zone to find where you fit in the world. Learn to love yourself and no one else, believe YOU are the sh1t. Then you will wake up one day with all the pieces to the puzzle.
 
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