"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How did you find SO SUAVE / What was your status before finding it ?

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Lol.

Well I was about to be a freshmen in highschool (so during my break before I started) and I typed into google


"How to get girls"

and Sosuave.com popped out!

i didnt actually find the forums til weeks later. ****, I didnt even know what a forum is.

Before this, I tried to hard to get girls. heh heh I only ended up with a few. But then in my HS years and after high school I've been getting GRIPS and GRIPS of girls :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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comic_relief

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Capt.Jack Sparrow said:
Lol.

Well I was about to be a freshmen in highschool (so during my break before I started) and I typed into google


"How to get girls"

and Sosuave.com popped out!

i didnt actually find the forums til weeks later. ****, I didnt even know what a forum is.

Before this, I tried to hard to get girls. heh heh I only ended up with a few. But then in my HS years and after high school I've been getting GRIPS and GRIPS of girls :D
HOLY SH!T, I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN.

I was on the main page when it was still underground and cool. I read EVERY article on the main page then started to look at other functions of the site. I clicked on something that said, "Discussion forum"

I didn't know what it was and I looked at it. I started to read and found the DJ Bible. My mind was blown.

comic_relief
 

ChrizZ

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I was looking for porn...then I found Sosuave.
 

Enryu

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Well there was this german warez page and out of boredom i clicked on the relationship forum. There were many threads about women, nice guys etc. but there was a thread called something like "Spooks 15 lessons to get women"

I read it (translated by a fan into german) and my mind was blown i instantly knew that all of this was right but i didnt really used the techniques etc. after a year, two weeks ago i think i wanted to find that post again but i knew that this wasnt the real post because he never explained what a don juan or an afc was so i did a google search for pook and landed on this glorious website

and right now im changing my life! Im more open to ppl, realize my dreams, take more risks etc. but i still see myself doing afc mistakes and right now im chasing a girl with whom i made some mistakes(before knowing this forum) but also a few natural dj moves (C&F, teasing her, not telling her you look great)

Normally every DJ would next her but i want to learn so im looking forward to date her at my favourite pub with free alcohol (germany rules :p)
 

Clarky

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Had been on another site (which i still visit sometimes) learnt abit from there and just typed into google 'Alpha Male' the rest is history....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Technical1

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Had tons of starts and stops, "beginnings" that went nowhere, situations where I could have fvcked but didnt know how to take it further, one case of ONEITIS that lasted 3 years, and general social problems as a result of becoming absorbed in too much abstract thinking.

Discovered this site two months ago and things are starting to get really interesting. The perspectives and being free from the matrix are huge, the small tips are nice, and the spirit of the people is moving. We all want the same thing, more or less. I dont see how we cannot win, if we just apply apply apply. Once you have good perspective and commit to doing real-life stuff, there is no way you cannot win. Thats how I see it. Everyone who really tries at this is destined for victory.
 

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i was completely hopeless with girls when i was about 13 had major oneitis on a girl and browsed the internet for a free site which would help me "get" this girl, i read articles on the main page for about a year or so, got a bit better with the ladies and eventually signed up to the discussion forum june last year i think
 

playa99

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oh btw, now i would say i am 90% on the road to becoming a master DJ, I have a bit of an insecurity issue at times and sometimes my self esteem goes thru the floor, workin on it though
 
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